Feeling alone as a little without a careGiver

[Littleangelxx]

Hi, I am looking to make some little space friends or to find a caregiver a little because family is against it and I’m looking to make some sweet amazing friends in the community along with possibly finding a caregiver along the way I’ve had caregivers in the past, but they never seem to care about me as a little And I’ve had little space friends, but they would randomly quit using their account on Instagram so we grew apart. I’m looking to work on going back into space because it helps me mentally and hopefully finding friends and a caregiver along the way would be nice 

[abiiii]

I’d recommend staying away from instagram ‘content creator’ type of littles because a lot of it is for show and/or sexualized. A good place i’ve found is oddly enough reddit and discord. And of course this website!

[EllieTheHauntedStarship]

Yeah, I'd say start here and join groups. Leave comments, join the chat, reply to statuses.

Avoid insta and stuff they're usually doing it as a hobby or to be sexual which I mean great if that's what you want, but it's not great for friendship building (to me anyway)

[Middlespace Brat]

It can be super lonely without a caregiver, and sometimes hard to find little friends  I'm very involved in the community, and everyone suggesting to stay away from Instagram are very right. 

To find friends, I would suggest: 

- Posting a friend personal here on this site! I've had lots of luck, with even my "weird" little interests.

- Posting a personal on Reddit
- Joining a Discord for Littles. They very much exist, some very small some big. Some are for more SFW littles and some are not  if you have a favorite Little Youtuber or creator, you can also join their Discord, and obviously find a lot in common right away!
If you want suggestions on finding any of the last two, you can DM me, I don't want to possibly "advertise" and I don't mind DMs!

If that's way too scary, try just responding to a comment here or there. You would be amazed! Looooots of people on here are very nice, and may be a tad shy to come out of their shell! 

[LunaLilac]

Here is definitely a place to feel less lonely without a CG, I've not had one myself, but having others around that understand how you feel about things cam make this world a lot less of a cold place. 

[beanbean]

It can be lonely hopefully the forum does detract from that sometimes 

[Huggybear]

Being active in the public topics and chat helps alot with loneliness. Bravely step in those and you'll surely feel less alone :)!

Looking for friends primarily is smart. Its always better to make good friends inside the community first and take things slow and steady! Theres no rush :).

[HopeMuffin]

@Littleangelxx You'll find your groove. It takes some patience...but YOU CAN DO IT! Take some quizzes, share about yourself, and join some clubs before you know it you'll have new connections ✨

[sophieR]

Hey. 

Hope you find people you can chat to. This is definitely a place to feel less lonely. I have tried personally the discord groups but it can be so confusing and daunting cos it feels like everyone knows each other and I'm on the outside. 

There are lots of people here tho including me who is up for a chat and to just be friends. 

[beanbean]

This is the place to be just be patient and always be cautious I am sure things will work out for just don’t rush friendships or anything else take it slow read the forums