Am I weird to want a platonic DDlg relationship??

[Katierose19]

I’ve got a condition called Postcoital Dysphoria which means I get really negative feelings and emotions after any kind of sexual act and I don’t want to do anything sexual at all no kissing, sex anything like that (hugs/cuddles are ok) but I rlly want a caregiver but I don’t want anything more then that, is that weird??

[Little kaiya]

Nope. If it works for you and is healthy then it's not weird.

[LittlePrincess24]

21 minutes ago, Katierose19 said:

I’ve got a condition called Postcoital Dysphoria which means I get really negative feelings and emotions after any kind of sexual act and I don’t want to do anything sexual at all no kissing, sex anything like that (hugs/cuddles are ok) but I rlly want a caregiver but I don’t want anything more then that, is that weird??

I don’t think its weird. I think there’s a lot more people than you think who also feel the same way 🤍 We all have our boundaries and limits and that’s okay. When your looking for a caregiver i would probably make that clear from the start so there is a good understanding on both sides tho. But it will be fine dw 

 

[babydollmira]

Personally I say no, but looking at it as DDLG is, it is overall looked at to be sexual since there’s the punishments and kink side related of things etc. but I also think since it’s a form of CG/L it’s possible to be nonsexual but in that case it wouldn’t really be DDLG! But I’d definitely love to try out a platonic CG/L dynamic one day! I hope you can too, I can relate to those negative feelings after sexual acts, nonetheless I wish you the best! 🤍🤍

[weirdunicorn]

not weird to me 💜

[Lovebites]

Weird no...   Its just gonna be more rare to find that person.   I too am looking for what I find is rare.   Good luck and stick with your search.

 

[mochidreams]

just reading the title of this post reassured me.

in answer to your question, not at all. (there are dozens of us! dozens!) you might want to do some research on age regression/age dreaming. age regression involves an actual shift in one's headspace; i.e., actually "regressing" to a younger state of mind. age dreaming, on the other hand, is basically a SFW version of ageplay.

personally, i find age regression/dreaming to be a great stress reliever. as always, everyone has different needs, so do what is best for you! good luck on your journey ❤️

[beanbean]

Not weird at all I been in a couple and they definitely have there pluses 

[EllieTheHauntedStarship]

Nope! It's perfectly OK. As long as you communicate, consent, etc, coz ddlg has sooooo much variation.