Are you happy?

[Huggybear]

Erick, you sound like youre in it pretty deep. Thoughts and talk like that tells me it might be a good idea to seek help from family and a therapist. Therapy is actually super great, in todays world we have more social media than ever but we actually talk and connect less than ever before, so talking to someone is propably a very smart step :). If youre already on it, I hope there will be progress!

[ErickWcurls]

9 hours ago, Huggybear said:

Erick, you sound like youre in it pretty deep. Thoughts and talk like that tells me it might be a good idea to seek help from family and a therapist. Therapy is actually super great, in todays world we have more social media than ever but we actually talk and connect less than ever before, so talking to someone is propably a very smart step :). If youre already on it, I hope there will be progress!

Don't see much point to it.  I'm so very tired.  I loved the wrong girl and it's wrecked me.  Don't see a way out. 

[daisy_cat]

Like previous posters, I've struggled with my mental health for a long, lonnnnng time. 

I can say with certainty that this year has been one of my happiest. Finding this site and talking to everyone has filled me with so much joy. And with the help of my doctor, my mental health has been super stable, helping me get my confidence back to go to school and get a job. 

Of course, there is always more things that can improve. Like finding a caregiver/partner would be awesome! And having enough money so I can get my own car. But right now? I'm happy. I actually like myself for the first time in a decade and am proud of myself. 

I know bad days will come, but I'm not afraid anymore of such days. I'll be able to handle it! ☺️

[Goofy Dad Energy]

I'm in such a happy place right now myself. Been reconnecting with friends, my promotion is only weeks away, and I'm hopelessly in love with my little girl. The only thing that could make things better is to get a better weekend schedule so my weekends aren't Thursday and Wednesday. (And IDK to win a million dollars or something)

 

For those of you that are unhappy at the moment I with the best for you and if anyone needs to vent they can message me.

[Lil Baby Stoner]

I’m very happy lately married my best friend in April and we gonna welcome our 2nd(my 3rd) baby together in April I have the best little family ever couldn’t ask for more well maybe my morning sickness to go away lol 

[Little kaiya]

I wouldn't say I'm happy, unhappy or any other specific emotion. In parts if my life I'm happy because my Wufe, Daddy and I have started buying tickets for own Halloween trips. In other parts like work I'm frustrated seeing companies dismantling their DEI strategies and teams. Health wise I'm having a hard time which makes me irritable. Having met with incredible LGBT Purge Survivors last week has left me feeling humbled and blessed. Chronic lifeling depression has me feeling well depressed lol.

Emotions are complicated and I think if I only really felt one way or another I would miss out on the incredible interwoven tapestry of emotions that make me uniquely me. So I guess my answer is I'm not happy or unhappy, I'm just felling the way I'm feeling and allowing that road to take me where it will.

[Guest LAM]

There is a way to be happy (or at least at peace)  in any situation. I think, for me, it's about focus. I choose to let go of the things I can't control, simply because I can't control them. I'm happy in those situations to a large degree. I like handstands, gardens, adventure, dry humor, and just so many things that are all around. There isn't much of a reason for me to be unhappy. I find happiness in the things that are constant. In people, however, rarely do I find this. I am happy in the company of interesting people. Not had much luck romantically, but maybe one day it will change. Nevertheless, I have been and will be, despite the odds, happy. 🌞 

[Gentleman_Daddy]

Always, every day. I have said it before but being happy is a mindset. It is easier, in my opinion to focus on negative thoughts and spiral down into misery, waking up and being grateful to experience another day takes effort and determination. Arguably, its worth it!

[Juju]

Am I happy? I would have to say that I am, yes.  I'm very happy.  I've come to a point in my life I've finally realized that no matter what life throws at you, it's not the end of the world.  It may at times feel like it, but that feeling is few and far between now. 

I've lots and lots to be thankful for and I am, every single day. I have a Daddy who loves me, unconditionally, which is really rare these days.  I have a roof over my head,  food on my table and clothes on my back. Blessings I do not take for granted. My circle of peoples are few, but I've learned to be picky of who I allow to be included in my life.  The type of people that only bring positivity love and reassurance.  Negativity nor drama has no room here from anyone or anything.  I bring that on myself, at times, I don't need it from the outside too.  

Do I have bad days still? Oh yeah! But I do not let them have the power of me anymore, at least, not like they use too, to bring me down.  I just keep reminding myself that I will be okay. That it will stop.  I just need to stay busy. Push through and push back.  

Also, to those of you who feel lost, alone, unsure, or that are in so much pain if feels like it will never go away...I promise you, it will! That light, it is at the end of the tunnel.  You've just got to take hold, grasp it and fight with everything you've got.  No matter what the darkness tells you! There is always hope! You are not alone! 

I hope this makes sense. I mostly hope it helps someone.  ❤️

P.S. 

Sorry! I didn't mean to write a book!🫣