Onyxpumpkin Posted December 20, 2015 Report Posted December 20, 2015 So im dating someone who isnt in the ddlg community and he thinks i need grow up, because it makes him feel like he is dating a child and kinda creeps him out, but i totally LOVE this man. How do i explain to him my need to be little??? HALP
Little Miss Ambrosia Posted December 20, 2015 Report Posted December 20, 2015 I guess the question I'd ask myself is does he love you. I mean all of you, even the little side. Maybe for you it's different, but I guess for the majority of people it's a part of their personality... so if someone doesn't accept that part of me, it's like he isn't accepting me as a whole. Anyhow. Maybe try embracing your little side when he isn't around/on your alone time, so he doesn't get overwhelmed by it. Ease him into it slowly? I don't think it's fair to expect from him to be a Daddy, but in a properly functional relationship he should at least be understanding of this part of your personality. Get him educated on the matter, offer him to interact with Cg to better understand their view on the matter. Just don't force anything... he should put just as much effort into this as you. Sorry if I wasn't helpful. Best of luck to you two.
Guest AllAboutYou Posted December 21, 2015 Report Posted December 21, 2015 LMA said it perfectly. If you do your part to make him understand that this is a part of you, not just a hobby or game or silly little thing, then if truly loves all of you, then he will make an effort to understand. At the very least, that might lead to acceptance...which sounds like is more than you currently are feeling from him about it. Just make sure that as you help him understand how important this side of you is to your overall happiness, don't forget to remind him that you "totally LOVE this man". That will help him want to listen and understand.
Guest Buttons Posted December 21, 2015 Report Posted December 21, 2015 Hey there! We have a lovely thread about introducing your non-DDlg/vanilla partner to DDlg! You can find it here: https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/5623-how-to-tell-your-vanilla-partner/ Locking to prevent multiple topics.
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