Advice for a newbie!!

[Lolitadisney]

Hello, everyone!

I have just met recently a submissive guy through a dating app. It's a long distance relationship (only online) because we live too far away from each other. I'm enjoying a lot being his Dom so far but I want him to know my Little side. 

The problem is that he thinks that seeing me as a Little feels as a huge responsibilty for him. He is not confortable with DDLG. 

In my opinion, I think his view on this is caused by prejudice because he does not seem to know much about DDLG.

Can you give me any advice to increase his interest on this, please? I mean, I don't expect a miracle but I'd like to be in Littlespace around him in a way he does not feel unconfortable. 

[Little kaiya]

Not everyone is comfortable or wants to have a partner who is little. If he is submissive and isn't a switch it's not really a matter of increasing his interest as he may just not have any interest, period, full stop. 

Personally I absolutely couldn't be with a switch and it has nothing to do with knowledge. I just simply have no interest or desire to be in a caretaker role and honestly it sounds like he may feel the same. Seeing my dominant partner in a submissive or little role would just change the way I saw my partner and, for me, not in a good way. Sometimes there may just be a disconnect in terms of goals and desires.

 

[beanbean]

I don't know sometimes people seeing a switch they have a hard time understanding that switching is hard sometimes for sure .I think communication is always the answer just keep talking to them and see where it goes just don't try to force it

[Lolitadisney]

He is a switch. I mean, he used to be a Dom but between us the most natural dynamic for us is Femdom-sub. I mean, I'm a switch and I have never imagined I would be so confortable being a Dom.

The fact I can't show him my Little side feels sad for me but I respect his boundaries.