Do long term DDlg relationships exist?!

[Kitten616]

Yes, I am feeling quite jaded today but I am curious… I consistently see people in the community express that they’ve never gotten to have the DDlg dynamic they want in their current or past relationships. Perhaps I just haven’t had enough, or the right, exposure, but is it possible to have a healthy, long term, irl DDlg relationship?

[Goofy Dad Energy]

Me and my little girl have been together for three and a half years and fall more in love every day! Not only do we have a healthy relationship, but we are both growing as people as we learn from each other. 

I don't want this to sound like bragging but it definitely is possible!

 

[DaddysMonkey]

It’s more than possible. It’s like people leaving reviews for restaurants…. You’ll see all the horrid reviews but it’s more rare for people to rant and rave about how amazing something is. It can leave people feeling really depressed and paints a picture that it’s so hard to find love in this lifestyle. 
 

Dad and I have been together for almost 13 years and Brother joined almost 3 ish years ago now. 
 

It’s not a cake walk , but it’s also not some horrible battle to find long lasting love either. 

[Lil Baby Stoner]

My daddy and me will be together 3 years this December we got married in April and don’t plan on divorcing or leaving each other we have a kid together and plan to have more 

[VirgoDaddy]

On average, mine have each lasted ~2.5yrs

[Kitten616]

I’m glad this topic made some of you come out of the woodwork to share and give hope to the rest of us. 💕

[Little kaiya]

My Daddy and I will be together 7 years this November and we are planning to get engaged next year. It is definitely possible. What I've found is people who jump right into a DDlg dynamic within a couple weeks of meeting rarely stand the test of time. Those who spend time getting to know one another as people first and who then add DDlg seems far more likely to have long term stable relationships.

[Sammykins]

So glad you posed this question and brought this up! I never scene or interacted with anyone in that dynamic but have always been curious how long they really last! Thank you for sharing and getting the conversation going I’m loving reading the comments and all the love they show! 🥰

[weirdunicorn]

yeah thanks for asking. ive also been wondering about success stories of people who met online. 🤔

[weirdunicorn]

yeah thanks for asking. ive also been wondering about success stories of people who met online. 🤔

[beanbean]

On 7/28/2024 at 11:25 AM, Kitten616 said:

Yes, I am feeling quite jaded today but I am curious… I consistently see people in the community express that they’ve never gotten to have the DDlg dynamic they want in their current or past relationships. Perhaps I just haven’t had enough, or the right, exposure, but is it possible to have a healthy, long term, irl DDlg relationship?

Its very possible I know if a good bit that have long term relationships 

[Huggybear]

My best relationships have had DDLG aspects in them, some more intense, some less. Longest relationship has been about 4 years, but I also did not start dating until I was around 25yo. Its definately possible and has so much potential for love that I would never even consider a vanilla relationship anymore. Id rather be alone :).

Is it easy to find a great match? HECK no! And when you do, its potentially far away, so you gotta make sure you have your basic needs met by your own hand and a good foundation on your life (or willingness to relocate) before diving deep into Kink dating, but its definately possible :).

[Daddylunababy]

On 9/3/2024 at 9:08 PM, weirdunicorn said:

yeah thanks for asking. ive also been wondering about success stories of people who met online. 🤔

My submissive wife-little and I met online, way back in the olden days.  2003.  Seriously, it wasn't the most common thing back then.

 

We married in 2005 and I became her daddy and she my little girl in 2016.