how to stop being so bratty T . T~

[Guest lostpuppy]

mm i wasn’t sure as to where to categorize this since i am new T . TTT. butttttt recently i feel ive been really disobedient with my mommy(ldr)and i feel really bad because shes try’s her best with me but i always end up breaking my rules or having attitude with her when i am angry/ sad and most of the time i do it unknowingly or because i just want her attention T - TTT.  i really just want to learn how to be a good girl for mommy and go atleast 3 days without being punished T ^ TTT. i am not afraid of losing her or anything because she is who i trust in the wholeee world she is really kind i just feel really bad because i don’t like making her angry with me :((. so ya any tips will be great T . TTTTTT thank you so much hehe. 

 

alsoooooo a bit off topic to what i was talking about~ but how do i stop crying all the time.. i feel like such a crybaby because i cry multiple times a day and is so annoying T . TTT i cry out of frustration, sadness, happiness, litterally id cry if my mommy goes even just an hour without speaking to me.. T . T. so ya plssssss tips if you guys have :3

 

byebye~

[Michibär]

Did you ever openly discuss your emotions? Or maybe possible situations, feelings, words, etc that might trigger your bratty behaviour?

I like brats but it needs to be a fair amount and not without reason

 

And the crying is a way of handling emotions, especially very strong ones

For me its that I cant cry, only if something reeeeally bad happened

So maybe find out, why those emotions are so strong or find a way to handle them better for yourself, eg stuffies, coloring, being creative

 

Hope this helps somewhat🥺🥺

[Guest lostpuppy]

3 hours ago, Michibär said:

Did you ever openly discuss your emotions? Or maybe possible situations, feelings, words, etc that might trigger your bratty behaviour?

I like brats but it needs to be a fair amount and not without reason

 

And the crying is a way of handling emotions, especially very strong ones

For me its that I cant cry, only if something reeeeally bad happened

So maybe find out, why those emotions are so strong or find a way to handle them better for yourself, eg stuffies, coloring, being creative

 

Hope this helps somewhat🥺🥺

thank you so much ^ v ^!! i have before and we have tried to work on it but i just have a really hard time managing my emotions T . TT. as for the feelings they are strong due to mental illness though even still i wish it wasn’t so intense T - T

thank you for the ideas i definitely will try to find a way to make it more tolerable~ have a great night :))!

[DashingDaddyDom]

I've found it really hard sometimes with certain types of brats LDR. I don't know if this is you, and it doesn't sound like it but sometimes a brat is being a brat in an ldr for reasons outside of the relationship and they just aren't ready for a commitment. It's a sad part of Cg/l esp when you have someone you really love and you've tried everything from stern brat taming to backing off and trying to let them get comfortable and everything in between. LDR adds that extra layer between the 2 people in the relationship and I find that it's so much easier in person. Usually that helps calm the storm of emotions that a brat experiences that causes the bratty behavior. I'm sure if you just work with your mommy you'll slowly settle into things. You seem really passionate about wanting to do so.

But like the other poster said, if a brat isn't willing to meet halfway at all ever it's really hard to keep that relationship going.

I hope this didn't come off as too negative for you. I believe in you!

Edited July 9, 2024 by DashingDaddyDom