How to establish a DD/BG

[Babygirl Storm]

I have a partner and we're trying to establish a Daddy/Babygirl relationship  but idk what to ask for in our contract or how to start it. I'm open to all comments or advice or website to help.

[Little kaiya]

Every relationship is going to be unique to the individuals involved. Start by having an adult to adult conversation with your partner. What are things thst interest you? What are things that are hard or soft limits for you. Ask each other what you're looking to find in the relationship. Discuss age ranges if applicable. Discuss goals, meaning and more. Ultimately the best advice is communicate,  communicate, communicate.municate.

[Cebakes]

Lots of good information above.  I always like to get an understanding of what my partner is hoping to achieve from the relationship.  They may flat out tell you, or you may have to probe.  It’s always good to know their history, what may upset or trigger them, and establish boundaries.    

I think it’s very important to also establish the dynamic outside of the bedroom.  Get to know them, tell them your story,  learn about their non DDLG side , establish a friendship bond, earn their trust, and respect.  Actions are always better than words. 

I’m in a new relationship with a woman who has never been involved in DDLG.  She is truly a natural for this and soaks it up like a sponge.  I did encourage her to jump on the Internet and read about DDLG.   There is tons of information on the Internet.  

We are getting to know each other and establishing our DDLG, lover, d/s, friendship, boyfriend and girlfriend relationships.  Things are very exciting, fluid, and organic.  We don’t really have rules, but I am shepherding her down this path.   I’m looking forward to doing many fun things,  be intimate and her daddy,  but there are several things I want to help her with.   
 

 

Edited July 2, 2024 by Cebakes

[Babygirl Storm]

Thanks Everyone.  I greatly appreciate all the feedback. I'll keep yall posted on the outcome.