new daddy needing help with little.

[Daddydom94]

hi guys im somewhat new to DD/lG and with my first little. we are in a LDR. what im needing help with is trying to figure out whats bothering my little.

earlier today me and my princess were plaing around using kik and talking on the phone. now a couple of hours later shes being really sassy breaking my rules and not doing the punishment i gave her for breaking the rules. she wont tell me whats wrong. she just told me to guess. she wont answer my skype call or my phone calls. the only thing i can think of is she might be experiencing sub drop. please help me like i said im new to this and need help from you more experienced doms and littles out there any help is greatly appreciated.

[Guest Heavenly.D.Carr]

Hello,

 

I'm sorry to hear that. If you both are new to ddlg then perhaps this where a little pushes boundaries. And since you're in a long distance she knows you can't physically inflict pain and that she can easily ignore you. As a switch I always get into a moody way. If my LDR daddy isn't giving me what I want I would break rules and ignore punishments. Til my daddy used to give me one chance to calm down and tell him what's wrong. If I decided to rebel he would put me on time out and tell me that if I wanted to throw fit I would do it by myself. And if I felt ready to tell him what was wrong I'd message "pumpkin patches" and he would reply and he would make me explain. Even if he needed to calmly coax the answers out of me.

[caithes]

This has always been a concern of mine. LDR punishments. There isn't a way to punish them if they are refusing punishment, except one. It can be drastic, but you have to stop giving attention. Stop using pet names. In a way, stop being a daddy for a bit. You have to show her you mean business. Now, keep in mind, this might not work with your little. This can be a very, very harsh card if played in the wrong way. Maybe she is the kind of little that just needs the threat of it.