Question for littles...

[Guest DaddyDoug]

Question for the littles out there... when you get to meet a Daddy would you first like a discovery session where you discuss the ground rules and likes / dislikes or would you far rather just jump in and be open with conversation and say as you go rules and likes dislikes etc?

[Kittyara207]

Rules should fit the Little/Middle or other.  Having the same rules for each is just not right.  Each one is different.  It'd be like saying we/they are all the same when each CG is different so to are we.

I think asking and answering questions.  If you ask a question answer yourself as well so it doesn't sound or feel uncomfortable.  Open with conversation.  Mix in likes and dislikes.  Like DC or Marvel, Star Trek or Star Wars.  Etc.  Things do not have to be all serious.  Taking your time to really learn each other.

Too early for deep thoughts.

[LittleS]

Hmmm I'd say a little of both. I'd like to know what kind of things a daddy would expect from me beforehand. Just some basic rules such as come to daddy with any problems, basic safety rules stuff like that. Then we could have a basic likes session stuff like food. Everything else can be learnt as the relationship develops. More rules can be added as the daddy gets to know me and can figure out what is needed In my life. 

[MissNMTX]

I like rules, because I like meeting and exceeding expectations. All, the rules up front though doesn't seem right and maybe even a bit overwhelming... especially if you're interacting with a more traditional little.

I'd suggest discussing hardliners (absolute no goes) and very general expectations and then let the rest develop. It's called a dynamic because it's dynamic!

Ideally, a great number of things would come just from normal conversation. Give yourselves both room to learn, try, and grow.

[Little kaiya]

For me I would need to be in a non-DDlg relationship first before I would ever consider calling them my Daddy or sharing my little side. During the development of that relationship there would need to be a discussion of roles, expectations on both sides are ensuring there is compatibility as adults first then in a CG/l context. 

Certainly there will be ongoing discussion as the relationship progresses and develops but I definitely would not be doing any kind of play or intimate CG/l sharing without a strong foundation first.

[Andriel_Isilien]

I prefer getting to know the person outside of the roles and labels. So, a bit more open. We can talk about what we like or dislike in kink, but it would be the same type of dialogue I would have with other littles I'm developing friendships with. For example, I have told peeps about how I struggle with punishments and share a bit of detail about that with another little who has been in the community much longer than I have. I don't bring it up because I am interested or have this expectation in doing a roleplay with them. I am wanting to hear their perspective, advice, and experience on the topic.

[sammar]

On 25‏/6‏/2024 at 10:40, Guest DaddyDoug said:

سؤال للأطفال الصغار هناك ... عندما تلتقي بأب، هل تفضل أولاً جلسة اكتشاف تناقش فيها القواعد الأساسية وما تحبه / ما لا تحبه أم هل تفضل القفز فقط والانفتاح في المحادثة والقول أثناء تقدمك في القواعد وما تحبه وما لا تحبه وما إلى ذلك؟

Hello, I don't have a DADDY, but I like things to go slowly, not too much, but to avoid tension and shyness. I read a story where the DADDY discovered the little , but silently. It didn't take very long, but his behavior was wonderful , A gentleman.

[Guest puppies4]

Personally, I would rather get to know someone first and progress when it is time. I would prefer a non-kink, non-ddlg or bdsm relationship before anything to see if the person aligns with my life outside of this lifestyle, as I am not a 24/7 little and I have certain life goals that are important to me. Once that foundation has been established, I would feel more comfortable being little with that person and establishing rules. I do not have a Daddy at the moment, but with my past partners, we have always explored our non-kink side first and made sure we had similar goals and expectations for the relationship before jumping into the dynamic.