what was the best way you sorted out the type of little you were?

[cheshirekitten]

So at the current moment most of my littleness is fantasy and admiration of the scene. I still have lots of sorting out the type of little i am and the type of activities id enjoy and ones i would out of all the things im curious about before i think about being interested in a daddy. So how did you explore your littleness? Did you have other littles or did you take up a mentoring daddy?

[littlewildmermaid]

Cheshire that is a beautiful avi.! I had a really good female Daddi (her choice of name ) then later a different Daddy that taught me a lot of what I did not want and what I did. We're still friends and I remain grateful to him. Personally being little was obvious- complete strangers not in the scene call me baby girl and such. Becoming my own little has been a journey and one worth taking. I learn from everyone, try things on in my mind or life, discard what does not fit and keep what does. Being little is a state of mind and only you know how that path should begin. Listen to your inner voice and do what your heart and mind feel to be true.  

[DaddyJsPrincess]

It took me a really long time to fully realize what kind of little I was. I had never had a Daddy up until very recently, so most of the realizing just came from reading stories and looking at pictures and fantasizing on my own. And even at that, I'm still discovering who I am. I just recently surprised myself with finding out I can go into a middle space, where I previously thought I was strictly little. So it comes with time and experimentation.

 

I understand wanting to craft your little world before introducing a Daddy into it, but sometimes fantasizing about and actually doing are very different things. I never imagined I'd be interested in playing some of the games that Daddy and I play together, and I only know because I've been able to explore my boundaries and learn about new things with him. So finding a Daddy to be a mentor (online or otherwise) might not be a bad idea.

 

I'd say you're in the right place. Talking to other littles and asking lots of questions is how I developed my little world. Feel free to inbox me if you have specific questions too. I would be very happy to tell you about my experience :3

[cheshirekitten]

Thank you both i definitely enjoy all the help i can get when it comes to figuring myself out

[ashwee]

It's hard to say really, but for me it just took a lot of time, and a lot of introspective thinking.

[Cherry41]

Cheshire that is a beautiful avi.! I had a really good female Daddi (her choice of name ) then later a different Daddy that taught me a lot of what I did not want and what I did. We're still friends and I remain grateful to him. Personally being little was obvious- complete strangers not in the scene call me baby girl and such. Becoming my own little has been a journey and one worth taking. I learn from everyone, try things on in my mind or life, discard what does not fit and keep what does. Being little is a state of mind and only you know how that path should begin. Listen to your inner voice and do what your heart and mind feel to be true.

I am quoting littlewildmermaid's post because I agree with what she said about being little...and because I have had a similar experience in terms of complete strangers who aren't even in the scene. People tend to naturally treat me like a girl Part of it is just because I look like I'm in my early 20s and I'm 40...and because I pretend to be naïve a lot  for fear of hurting someone's feelings by calling them out on anything... but there is also just something about me that comes across as much younger. I've just always acted like a naughty but nerdy college girl.

 

I would say just let things come to you comfortably and don't force yourself to do anything because you feel you "have" to because it's "what lgs do."

[littleoflilliput]

I agree with the above poster about not trying to force yourself into things just because the community does! I didn't have a daddy or mentor at all when I defined my little space. I wanted to figure out what I really wanted before I involved anyone else. For me, figuring out what I liked/didn't like in terms of little space just involved a lot of trial and error. I'd do something, ask myself, "How does this feel?" For example, disney princesses aren't my thing. I felt a little bad about it at first just because it seemed like a prerequisite to being a little girl! But as I'd sit with the disney flicks, I'd ask myself, "How does this feel?" "Boring." "Okay, let's work with that!" Coloring was a go. Jane Austen stories too. Little House On The Prairie gets me excited! Chore charts, stickers and daily reports/assignments are my shtick. But lots of other stuff, like high heeled shoes and juice boxes (I don't like juice that much, it's too sweet!) I tried out and realized it didn't click with me. Experiment a lot and do what feels right to you! Don't worry about anyone else! 

[PrincessBunnieButt]

Sissy I think we need to have some hang out time just you and I exploring little things :3

[cheshirekitten]

I agree sissy we do. Thank everyone for the advice i appreciate every bit

[Desphiria]

My friend actually kinna made me realize it. Not sure what kinna little I AM though if that's what you're asking. But yeah, my friend and I were rping and she had her character call me his little girl and then my brain was like *Gasp!* That is what I ams! XD It was REALLY weird but felt nice. ^^;