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How do I bring up to daddy that I need rules…. I want to be told what to do and I need rules. I need them. i’m just kind of afraid he won’t want to do rules or maybe not remember the rules…. idk?? ! 😭😭 

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Talk to him and tell what you need figure out and you can always write them downalso

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"Daddy, can you help me think of some rules, its super important! and aa and i dont know how I can remember, could you help me please?"

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Personally, I like rules. I thrive on structure AND it actually makes it easier for me to do things that are hard for me...Go to the gym and drink water...😂

But yeah, you have to tell him. Especially since you're saying it's a need and not just a want. If you need something from him he needs to know.

Would be a wonderful opportunity to map out more of the dynamics of your relationship and make sure the both of you are getting what you want and need.

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So this is something I can kinda relate to cause I had a similar situation recently…I really wanted Daddy to have more control and give me more rules but I didn’t know if he was ready for that or wanted that at all (we only started exploring this dynamic together about 1/2 months ago) 

so I kind of just said can I ask a question, can I have more rules please (kinda just blurted it out) but it opened up the conversation. We then spoke about both having a think about what we want the new rules to look like so we are gonna think over it the next couple of days. 
 

As for the forgetfulness, I’m the forgetful one, So one of our plans is to pin a message to the top of our messenger with my rules and tasks and I am going to also suggest sending a message at night of everything I did or didn’t do in regards to the rules each night to save him having to check up on me constantly during the day as his work gets super busy. 
 

unsure if that’s helpful but hope you manage to communicate your needs. 🐼

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