Calling for help (＞人＜;)

[Arin]

Hi 🎀

My name is Ari and I am very new to this~ 

ddlg always been a topic I am interested and curious about but every time I wanna try getting into it I get really scared probably because I don’t know any dd or cg and how see what they like or dislike or how they would like to know someone  

I would be very happy and not as nervous if someone share some advice on how can I get to know a gentle bb or cg 👉🏻👈🏻

 

 

[Johnny5]

Hello Ari!  Welcome to the community!  This is a great place to learn and make friends.  The forum threads are full of helpful information and people are typically very willing to share and help you out.  The best advice I could give you right now would be to educate yourself more, visit the chat room when others are there, maybe look at the intro and friends threads, and check out all the cool clubs you can be a part of.  Ask questions, be yourself, and have fun!

[Arin]

@Johnny5

Aaaaaa thank you for commenting so fast that made me less nervous tehe 

I guess I will be exploring for the time being ~~ 

[Johnny5]

Always a good choice! 

[beanbean]

Yep just explore the topics and see if there is anything thing that applies to you

[Little kaiya]

Every caregiver will be different just as every little is different. When it comes to getting to know someone within DDlg a lot of the same advice applies as anywhere else. Take your time. Get to know people first before entering a dynamic. Know and respect your own limits and boundaries. Respect the other person's boundaries. Open and honest communication.

A lot of times newer folks are looking for some kind of secret but there isn't one. DDlg is just another type of interpersonal dynamic, so approaching it in an open, honest, adult, confident way is best.

[Arin]

@Little kaiya

I took your advice and set some boundaries so whatever I try in the future I know my limits! 
 

I always felt like meeting CGs would be much easier to get along with than in the internet as I am kinda shy 👉🏻👈🏻 

But thanks alot for your comment 🎀

[MoJo]

Would recommend reading some basic principles of D/s because it provides a good starting point expanding into ddlg. Acknowledging the dynamic is slightly different but there is a lot of overlap. Number one priority is your safety, mentally and physically.