Need advice middles

[BrattyMiddle89]

Okay new here I been a sub for 5 years then last year I discovered  I am a middle .it still new to me and educating myself to understand  myself more .I also would make some middle friends without  judgment. I always been a shy girl even as a child I still am  but the middle I am - I love horror coloring books with color pencils ,video games,music I love taylor swift but I like different  types of music but mainly pop,love make bracelets, I tend stay close to or hold on to my daddy shirt when we go out ,I love shopping especially  for shiny ans cute things ,my stuffed animals very important  to me .I have notice if I don't get way sometimes  I retreat n get upset and sometimes I end up bratty with some rebel , I noticed as well this is who I am how I relax myself even when I'm not in middle space or being middle .I'd love to get better understanding  and  feel utterly free.

[Fluttershy_99]

Hi! I am a middle too ^.^ it is new for me too.. I love video games, crafts, my stuffies and coloring too! I also love these when I’m not in middle space. I feel like loving this stuff is just part of who I am so it feels good to explore middle space. It helps so much to know others feel the same  I don’t have advice since I’m new too, but I would love to talk! What is your horror coloring book? I bet it’s awesome!

[MissNMTX]

What exactly is it you feel like you need advice with? The best (and only advice) I'd ever give is to just take your time. Take time, researching and learning, ask a ton of questions, but also remember your dynamic is your dynamic. There's no mold to any of this!

Edit: I forgot to mention, being a middle is a bit harder. Just because it isn't as common. Nor is it as easy to express...I think it's more complex. Again, just take your time.

Edited May 23, 2024 by MissNMTX

[DocKestrel]

So many of the things that you are descrbing are truely middle. Middle is a tough time of life, not fully autonomous but pushing bounds, trying to discover who you are and what your needs are. I think friends and a forum like this are great for you. I agree fully with MissNMTX, you are you and your dynamic is yours alone. Breath, take time, talk to friends, sometimes the right Ddy can be that support that you can rail against and lean into. It will take time and require introspection, but you are on your path.

[jazmynMyddle_]

Hey & Welcome !🌻🌹 I'm also a, like full on, middle. Lol - I was about to say/ so yeah I agree with what's been said as far as there not being as much (by a long shot!) info, or platforms, etc. for us! It's a bummer. - 

Also, I'm a scary movie fan too  and I also hang on to Daddy's shirt when out in public! Lol 😛 

Anyway this site is really cool to have! If I don't alrdy, feel free to send me a request! (Again I know that other middles r always looking for each other! Lol 

P s because I just seen in ur page - wer the same age ! I just turned 34 on the 16 

 

Edited May 24, 2024 by _jazmynxMyddlex

[EllieTheHauntedStarship]

Hi! Middle here too (mostly. I can get really little but my regular state is middle lol)

My only advice is relax and have fun coz no one knows you like you (or your Daddy!)

I like horror with a good heap of humor if you ever want to talk about movies I prefer sci fi tho lol

Swifties unite!