submissive who's worried about her relationship

[babygirl34]

My partner and i have been together for 5 years now and he's always been my daddy and i his submissive..i have terrible anxiety and need alot of reassurance and he's always been great at that..i get nervous and overthink when it comes to Calling him daddy and stuff because past relationships never liked that kind of thing.. he's always called me babygirl but now he doesn't say it anymore and when i express feeling a certain type of way when he goes out, it turns into deflecting from my point of view and things i do wrong.. I've been trying to be more confident with calling him daddy more and stuff but everything feels off track and I'm worried that no matter what i do to fix things, It's not going to matter 💔 i love him very much but I'm at a toyal loss 😞

[babygirl34]

I have tried but all i get is "yeah. We're good" or when i asked him not to dismiss my feelings, he said i was right about him being distant and part of it was my fault and there were other things that were bothering him but hasn't said because he doesn't want to hurt my feelings and now I'm in a constant state of worry and he won't tell me what those things are

[babygirl34]

According to his text, it's more than one thing and it's going to upset me obviously but since he's refusing to talk about it, what do i do? I'm stuck here with him if he doesn't want me anymore because i don't work or drive and i have nowhere else to go..i put everything into this relationship but i feel like I'm not good enough

[beanbean]

Yep you need to talk to him in person and as @GayKitten says you might want to at least a plan if things go sour 

[babygirl34]

We text while he's at work and i asked him about it in person when he got home and nothing.. I'm trying to get disability since i can't work and if that goes through, then at least have some kind of financial stability.. It just sucks thinking the worst

[babygirl34]

@GayKitten i haven't because he's still working but i will when he calls me and tell him we need to talk once he's home and I'm sure he'll say he's too tired but I'm done with the excuses..i need to know if it's fixable or not.. thankyou for your advice i really appreciate it!..i don't have friends here let alone friends who are subs like me

[babygirl34]

@GayKitten you're the best!! Thanks again 😇