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Doubts about a possible crush (she's asexual)


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Hi!

I've met a girl at a Dance School and she's amazing. She's eighteen. She's very pretty. She's a very amusing, otaku and creative person, very cute... 

To sum up, she's my type.

I think she may have a language disorder (autism?) because she's very shy and sometimes her social interactions or comments are weird. For me, it would not be a problem if that's the case. 

She's asexual and I'm still surprised she talked about that the first time we met. I'm not used to people being so open about their sexual orientation.

The thing is I gave her my number so she could talk to me in order to keep her whatsapp. I thought she was happy when I gave my number to her. At least, she seemed to be amazed. Actually, she hasn't sent me any message during Spring Break & I don't know what to do. 

I mean, I just want to take it easy and to know her better in a relaxed way. 

Please, could you give me any advice?

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Have you tried sending her a message? Sometimes the other person likes it if the other person starts the convo.

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She may be nervous to text first or she may be trying to think of the perfect thing to say, I have been in that position before where I sit and think forever how to start the conversation. If she doesn't message soon you could always ask when y'all see eachother in person again why she didn't message you. 

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The fact they mentioned their asexuality means they're definitely interested in you.

The fact you've got no message may mean a number of things but I'd likely just forget it. I've given up a Number never got a message or call and people that really want something message or call. They could be too shy, too nervous, lost it and in that case I may try to find them but if it was put in their phone it's doubtful. 

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I respectfully would disagree that sharing one's sexual identity means the person is automatically interested. I've shared my sexual orientation and had people share theirs with me with absolutely no interest in either direction. Assuming that someone must be interested just because they shared their sexuality seems a pretty large and assumptive leap.

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I think that she could be interested, if not for a relationship but for at least friends! You also mentioned she's shy so maybe break the ice with a silly meme! Worst she can do is just not respond, no harm no foul!

I hope it goes well with her!!

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