Not Having an Age?

[justpeachy97]

Hi everyone! I am often asked what little age I am and I never know how to respond. I really don't feel like a specific age. I just like when I feel small. Is it weird to not have a specific age that you feel like? Just was wondering what other people's experiences are. 😊

[BelladonnaTheNightWitch]

Hello!

I updated my status and I wrote in something about not having a little age. I guess it's okay to not have one, I never really thought of an age until recently and I realized that when I regress, I just like the feeling of being small as well. I've been into little space/ddlg for years and never had a little age

[justpeachy97]

12 minutes ago, DaddysDarkling said:

Hello!

I updated my status and I wrote in something about not having a little age. I guess it's okay to not have one, I never really thought of an age until recently and I realized that when I regress, I just like the feeling of being small as well. I've been into little space/ddlg for years and never had a little age

That makes me feel better! I will just start saying I'm just small when people ask what age I regress to 😊

[Guest sunburntdaisy]

Hi! 

I feel exactly the same. I don't really have a little age or a middle age, I just feel young and cute literally all the time. I joke that my little age is being 26 because hey, that's still young! 

I'm happy others feel this way too. 💗

[Little kaiya]

My Daddy and I focus more on the activities and time together than a specific age. The question of my age really doesn't come up as I'm not trying to emulate a certain age. I'm just playing and having fun and that's what my Daddy and I care about.

[Sleepy Baby]

My experience is I never had a little's age. In my head space, I feel more cute, small, and playful. There was no certain age I could put myself in, and that is fine.

[MissNMTX]

I understand where this can be hard. Ir is a question that gets asked. I put an age range on my profile. But know that it took years of learning and discussion to even figure that range out! It's mostly on my profile to be clearer about my interests and the activities I enjoy (or don't).

I agree with the others, it really is mostly about your headspace. What helps you feel more relaxed, comfortable, happy, playful, etc 

So, forget about any pressure to come up with a number.... that understanding will come the more you understand what your own headspace is like 

[SpoobSnack]

Hello! I am new here and just getting into transitioning into the ddlg dynamic with my fiancé and I feel exactly the same. I don't have a specific age that I feel like applies to me. I just like to feel small and playful and cute. I think it's totally fine! From what I've seen doing a little bit of research is that it varies from person to person or couple to couple. I like the freedom of being able to tailor things to fit our specific needs/wants.

[Lolitadisney]

Hi!

Personally, sometimes I feel I'm a Little but most part of the time, I feel more tuned to a Middle-teen vibe. I don't normally feel as a specific age but there were a couple in which I felt I was like four years old while on Little Space. But I never pay attention to that because for me the most important thing is to enjoy Little Space as much as possible. 

[Princess stuffie monster]

Hey so yes its normal not to have a specific age many littles fluctuate age ranges and simple feel little it is perfectly normal

way me and Daddy's determined my age was by seeing what i did more off and frequently i do go younger and older still but mostly at a 4/5ish age where your somewhat independent but still need a lot of Daddy's attention  so dont worry you are not alone x

[Xmelx3]

I don't really have any specific ages I prefer. Part of what I love of DDlg is getting the opportunity to make Daddy's dreams come true too, so I really enjoy when a Daddy can give me a general idea of what they prefer, and it usually evolves with time or based off of either of our needs from there. My dream is to over the long term roleplay the entire daughter raising process from baby to 18, but that would take someone extremely special I think.

[pipsqueak79]

On 3/30/2024 at 1:50 PM, justpeachy97 said:

Hi everyone! I am often asked what little age I am and I never know how to respond. I really don't feel like a specific age. I just like when I feel small. Is it weird to not have a specific age that you feel like? Just was wondering what other people's experiences are. 😊

 

[pipsqueak79]

I don't have a "little age" either.  I can't label it.  I tend to only be little with one to two certain period right now.  It was just one,  the one I want to be with,  but now I'm back in connection with an old friend and she helps as well.  I'm sure if chat was more active I'd be more apt to feel comfortable to be little.  But mine is more in the moment with others right now during discussions.  This makes no sense to some I'm sure but I need to have a safe space.  That being said I have no idea what age I am.

[Guest matterdaddy]

On 5/14/2024 at 4:54 PM, Xmelx3 said:

I don't really have any specific ages I prefer. Part of what I love of DDlg is getting the opportunity to make Daddy's dreams come true too, so I really enjoy when a Daddy can give me a general idea of what they prefer, and it usually evolves with time or based off of either of our needs from there. My dream is to over the long term roleplay the entire daughter raising process from baby to 18, but that would take someone extremely special I think.

Hey I really enjoyed this post. I would have to say as a Daddy I find everything you said right on par with my own dream. My goals in ddlg are to please the little though. I gain pleasure out of non sexual regression where I provide protection safety and guidance even punishment when necessary. But the erotic aspects I'd rather discuss in private. My DMs are open message me ok? We should have a good chat.

[Guest matterdaddy]

On 4/1/2024 at 2:26 PM, GunnyD said:

I think there are some Littles (possibly this is even most Littles) who slide around the age ranges.  As a Daddy/Dom, I find this delightful!  It opens up so many possibilities for my Little girl and I to interact in so many different ways.  One minute I might be giving my itty-bitty girl a bath, and the next I might be facing the attitude of a sassy teen who's chafing at her bedtime.  As a Daddy, you have to be ready for anything, and it helps if you learn to read your Little!   Flexibility is key in this lifestyle because so many things, from hormones to situational anomalies, can affect the way a Little or her Daddy feels.  The important thing is that both partners understand the mutual rules and foundations of your dynamic, and that you are both true to that.   And, of course, communicating when things feel different or off.

Just my two cents, as a DD.

~Gunny     

Well said my fellow Daddy 

[Xmelx3]

On 5/24/2024 at 2:44 AM, Guest matterdaddy said:

Hey I really enjoyed this post. I would have to say as a Daddy I find everything you said right on par with my own dream. My goals in ddlg are to please the little though. I gain pleasure out of non sexual regression where I provide protection safety and guidance even punishment when necessary. But the erotic aspects I'd rather discuss in private. My DMs are open message me ok? We should have a good chat.

I would love to chat, but I don't think we are able to message if you're using a guest account. If you make an account, please add me Or feel free to find me on tumblr/fet.

[Mogoira]

Same for me, 

My Daddi and I are relatively new and primarily exsist in the mentor/guide middle range than the responsible for me little range. That said we can see that being a possibility in the future. 

I am disabled and with one of my conditions, I can go non verbal which is the closest we get to little space. 

It feels so good to have it echoed that other experience this and that I don't have to decide where I am.