New to the ddlg community

[LittleChels]

Hi! 

My husband and I are new to the ddlg community, I know a little bit about it but he knows nothing. He has classified himself as a daddy which I find to be accurate! Myself though I'm not sure what I am. I think I'd be a little but I'm just not sure. How did everyone figure this out? 

I feel if I'd be a little, it's not a young little, I don't have the desire for a paci, or diapers, or to dress as one but I've always liked me stuffies, I slept with a giant one up until I was 23-24... I think I act childish/silly especially around my husband, I'm also very clingy towards him in general but it gets worse when I'm upset. 

We also aren't sure where to start.. 

 

Can anyone help? 

[ChloeTheAdultBabyDiaperLuv]

Here’s some advice hun; if you feel upset ask your husband to give you a nice bottle and start to pamper you and thatt will get you feeling much better, or if your still upset try snuggling with him and let him rock you gently and using coomforting words! ❤️❤️

 

-Alastor 

[shadowrider]

 I think you have taken your first and an important step. You found a community of like minded and helpful people. 

 I would suggest having your husband join if he hasn't already. There is a lot of information, for littles, middles, bigs, and switches, tucked away here. And being among people who understand might help him to open up and explore and learn about himself and the lifestyle. 

 I would say read as much as you can, the threads go back years so there is plenty to read and see what resonates with you and him.

 I personally find it less important to label yourself as a certain age or certain thing. I think its better to join in and see where you are most comfortable and what makes you happiest. Then explore those things deeper. 

 We are glad you joined us.

 

[FillYouWithMe]

For me, developing my Middle self has been about exploring how I act and taking the time to examine it afterwards. Let yourself sink into the role, and discuss with your husband how you felt and how he felt in that space. When you get the hang of it, you can really understand each other in the dynamic.

 

Also, make sure to research! It’s important to get into learning about it early, to both broaden your horizons as well as knowing signs that something should be discussed between you both.
 

As a Middle, I’m mostly just a sassy and goofy. I don’t take things seriously, and I just have fun at every possible chance, or just be a brat to make the mundane parts of life more interesting. I can get quiet, and sometimes non-verbal when I’m feeling down, but I think that’s a part of the “I need my caregiver to spoil me with their love” side.