Is it rude to ask your little age

[blingsing]

I've seen a couple of posts where people say it's rude to ask what age your little is. I don't understand why. Surely they are jus trying to get to know you better and understand where you are coming from. Do you think it's rude? And if you do, why?

[lillizzie24]

no its a way to know the person 

[Kittyara207]

No not rude.  Cause you can tailor your words and speech to them more.  And when deep in Littlespace it's sometimes hard to pull out of it and understand big talk.   I most of the time unless conversing with lots of other littles online I rely on big words.  

But it's similar I think to asking the gender question.  It's best to ask then assume.  Don't want to hurt people's feelings.

Edited March 28, 2024 by Kittyara207

[DaddysMonkey]

I find it odd that it would be seen as rude. How else are you supposed to know if you are compatible ? There are some caregivers who prefer middle age , really baby talk age , more teenager style age for their littles headspace. 
 

Maybe it’s just me but I feel like calling it rude is a bit of an overreaction and is creating problems where it’s not needed 😅

[Josey Wales]

The more information a Daddy has the better care taker he can be so no it’s not rude. Daddy’s ask lots of questions to understand! 

[blingsing]

@DaddysMonkey @Josey Wales

This is exactly what I thought. I couldn't understand their point of view. Do I thought 🤔 I know who will tell me straight. Thanks guys. 

[blingsing]

I think that the people asking were maybe not caregivers and the people responding, saying it was rude thought that maybe they were being too nosey. Just guessing..

On another site. You know the one. They are always arguing over there. 

[Kittyara207]

There's another site?   If it's like that it sounds horrible!!!!   No thank you.  Gonna stay here.   I have enough drama in my life don't need to add to it.

[beanbean]

I for one can't see it being rude

[BJZ]

I would not take offense, my age is important to who I am today because I am not the same person I was 10y ago. Needs and wants change. 

[wissing]

As all the others have said before me.

NO it is differently not rude to ask for ones little age how else are daddy's to know how to make their perfect little feel good.

And what a waste of all party members time it would be if it was rude: if the daddy first finds out after 1-3 months that you are middle and he wants a little but where not allowed to ask about the age before because it was rude.

Ofc. Daddy's should ask ask ask and then ask some more it personally makes me feel wanted if a daddy ask me questions coz he only asks coz he is interested in some way.

[blingsing]

I'm beginning to think that the person who said that might be very easily offended or maybe it was just an excuse for a shut down of the conversation 🤔. 

[wissing]

1 hour ago, blingsing said:

I'm beginning to think that the person who said that might be very easily offended or maybe it was just an excuse for a shut down of the conversation 🤔. 

Agree 😊

[Little kaiya]

It's just a question, I don't see how it's in any way rude.