First time meet up with a daddy/little

[nnie]

Hellooo ♡

I was wondering how did you guys manage the first time you ever met a daddy or someone in this community? 

It's one of the things that holds me back the most about completely enjoying being a little. I would like to meet people interested in agere and ddlg in person and I would like to have some "real life" experience with a daddy but I always find myself too scared to actually meet. My subconscious always tells me that something bad could happen or that maybe they are faking to be who they are, so... it's basically bc I'm scared of having a bad experience or maybe being too weird, idk...

 

Like... do you have any advices in how "to do it"? Did you tell someone else in case something happened or, did you make an agreement with this person you were meeting or did you just made a regular meet up and got to know each other before showing your little side...? Or other things, idk, I have a lot of things in my mind and I just really don't know which one is the nicest way to do in order to feel safe and confortable while meeting someone.

 

(I feel like a rambled too much haha so hopefully this makes sense...) 

[DDCool]

Evening,

It's like meeting anyone you don't know from what they tell you about themselves. I don't want to sound negative but build up a level of trust and understanding first, there is no time limit to that. 

When you feel like you are at the stage to meet up then go for it, but for the first time, at least, do all the sensible things, have a friend to text and make sure they know you are safe and sound.

Just feel it's right, have fun and when you have that right person it will be good. 

Trust your judgement but always stay safe xx

 

[Little kaiya]

My Daddy and I met outside of DDlg at a furry conference, got to know one another, built trust, then started to date and finally added DDlg. A lot of the horror stories we see are from folks who talk online for like a week before jumping into DDlg in person or folks who go to a munch and immediately jump into a DDlg dynamic.

Although their is an additional component here it follows a lot of the same rules as dating. If folks are compatible then spending time getting to know each other will only ever strengthen that, it won't ever undermine it.

Best advice my Daddy and I can offer is take your time. Rushing into things so so so often leads to hurt and heartache for one, both or multiple folks.

Edited March 2, 2024 by Little kaiya