What do Littles/Middle look for in a Daddy/Mommy/CG?

[MotoDaddy]

I was inspired by the thread 7 fundamentals of a daddy dom.  There was an underlining note hit amongst many replies; the necessities of a daddy dom or mommy depends on what kind of daddy/mommy/cg the little wants and/or needs. The inverse is also a complicating factor too.  What does a Little/Middle look for in their DD/MD/CG?

Edited February 26, 2024 by MotoDaddy
I'm dyslexic and clarified my point

[LittleOceans]

Are you asking for a thread that introduces the fundamental traits of a little/middle?

[MotoDaddy]

2 minutes ago, LittleOceans said:

Are you asking for a thread that introduces the fundamental traits of a little/middle?

No.  I'm seeing what littles/middles are looking for in their cg/dd/md

[Little kaiya]

As a little with a CG I really only looked for two things, one a willingness to communicate openly, honestly and transparently and two, someone willing to accept me for all if who I am including strengths/weaknesses, flaws, skills, good, bad and everything in between. With those two things we can work out challenges or issues, celebrate our love and in general have a positive and happy relationship.

[blingsing]

To feel safe and secure to:

say whatever is on my mind. No matter how silly or difficult. Daddy will always listen. 

be vulnerable, and soft. I don't want to have to protect myself or my feelings because Daddy would never hurt me. (Naughty spankings are not included here)

There are many ways to be a Daddy but to me this is the core

 

[Suzette]

I'm looking for a dad who protects me (physically and mentally), who takes care of me out of love, who is attentive, intelligent and responsible because he is the master on board, who knows how to cajole me as well punish me in my interest. May he liesten and give good advice. I'm looking for a loving and respectful relationship in complementary. We must be stronger together and help each other grow.

[xolilbunnyprincessxo]

Someone who knows how to bring out and play with my little side. Someone I can trust to take lead and let me be a little mindless wanderer, I don’t want to make decisions and pick stuff. Someone who can help add structure to things I have trouble doing on my own that are simple everyday tasks for most people. Firm but kind <3, CG’s/Daddy’s should be loving and punishments should be fine tuned to each Littles needs we’re all different some soft some tough some wild some obedient but we all want little a structure. I want my rock someone I can be comfortable with being 100% me around that encourages and nurtures lil me but also naturally runs the show because otherwise I will and… I really don’t actually want to.  Someone to love and look up to that fulfills my needs of wanting to be taken care of, looked after, protected, and allowed to just not think and slip in and out little space. IDK it’s a long list. Basically I think to much and want someone who it’s safe to not think at all around that enjoys my company and doesn't mind that I’m a taker and not much of a giver and doesn’t mind straightening out my spoiled a$$ every once in a while lol.