strict cgs?

[Tizi]

wondering about having a strict cg (specifically daddy)…. personally the idea of having a ton of rules and a very strict cg sounds very stressful (tho that could be trauma-related), but i’m also curious. other littles, what appeals to you about stricter cgs? and also cgs, have you been with littes who want you to be stricter??

 

probably a question that’s been asked before but still, just curious 

[beanbean]

It's all just a preference that depends and much  discussion with littles and there caregivers we are all different and we all must find what's best us

[Guest Lollodd]

from what I have seen in some cases, preferring a stricter daddy/cg/dom is related also to having someone who can choose for you and therefore having a wider reach of power exchange or even a TPE dynamic. In this sense I think it becomes less stressful to follow the rules rather than having to decide for oneself, if it makes sense.

Edited February 23, 2024 by Lollodd

[LittleOceans]

Having less to worry about is so relieving. Having structure and clear-cut rules is anxiety-reducing. Always knowing the boundaries and what is allowed and not allowed and having some guide is freeing. It's all about preferences and needs.