I have a question.

[Jenya]

Be careful, I use Yandex Translator because my knowledge of English is below the skirting board.

Hello everyone Last night I thought about a rather important question. I know that most often Little\middle has psychological and/or psychiatric problems. 
But today I would like to talk about couples who have such problems. It doesn't matter who it is. I'm just curious to know how and what is going through. 
Unfortunately, I have a couple of diagnoses looming and I'm extremely worried about it. I don't want to harm, I don't want to carry unnecessary worries.

Last year I already had problems with a relationship where two people have problems. And we broke up on that basis.  
I recently met a man from a neighboring town, but his psyche is extremely unstable.  
And yesterday I wondered if there could be a relationship where cg might have problems (which are naturally corrected with a doctor).

I will be glad of any answer.

[beanbean]

As Gigi said both people need to want to get help but also I know certain people can snape me out of things .so I do think the right person can really snap you out of something to and generally make you fell much better. Is it going to cure all problems to be someone that is the ying to your yang?. No but it could help 

[BuddhaPuppy]

Hmmmmmmm.....Ok, I went through a phase due to a close friend dying.  I decided to change, but I needed to do it organically.  I will get to the topic at hand soon enough.  You can only live your path.  I became a Buddhist, a Reiki Master Teacher, and a Certified Massage Therapist.  I wrote a book about the journey and it was up on Amazon for a couple of years before I brought it down.  If there are issues, you need to change your perspective.  You need to do things differently with other people and areas you have not knowledge in.  This way you are listening and you are taking yourself out of the equation.  If that does not work, you need to look at the relationship and evaluate it from "I have looked at this from two perspectives and it is not working."  That tells you the relationship is not working and you need to move on.  Just my two cents.

As for the health issues.  I wish the best for you.

In peace.

[Jenya]

The thing is, I've already been in a relationship where we both had mental health issues. I was treated only with medication, without therapy. Starting this year, I will start therapy. Thanks to the medications that have changed, I have become much more stable. But I'm still worried about my anxiety and some kind of self-control. (it's terrible, I know and I'll definitely get over it) . 

But it's more about the person I'm talking to. He says it's all right. But I'm afraid of hurting him. Not that I'm hoping for a relationship, I'll be glad to have a friendship, It's just that I'm afraid of making things worse. 

With their anxiety, anxiety and much more. I remember that a person can have Asperger's syndrome and I try to calm myself down. Haha. 

Still, taking on the role of cg, I'm embarrassed about my problems.  

 

Thank you very much for the answers! I think it will be great if everything gets better. (It's better to let it be with him, I'll get over my depression).