I started as an accidental daddy and would like to do it again

[justcallmeAndy]

my first ddlg relationship started by accident and now he like to start another one but have a few questions id like help with.

 

first of all how do I start a relationship or find a person who is into the lifestyle without making it awkward?

 

my second question is has anyone else came into the lifestyle by just being themselves as I did?

 

my third is when and how do I tell my friends and family that I'm in the cg\ddlg lifestyle?

 

thats all for now i look forward to your answers thank you

[Guest MyDaddyMyWorld]

One...there is a personal ad section here, fetlife is a goid option, look for local events etc.

Two... I don't think you can make yourself be a daddy, so yes, it's you as a person.

Three...why do you feel the need to tell anyone the specifics of your intimate relationships? That's the same for any kind of relationship. There is no need to lay out the details to anyone.

[ANewDragon]

One is already answered.

Two, I did not realize I was meant to be a daddy till I started reading up about DD/lg. Which now that I realize it, it is who I am and there for it basically is me being myself

Three, I honestly do not think anyone needs to know, There is no reason to tell anyone, unless you want the crazy looks that you get when you say you are into a dom/sub relationship. It is more accepted now, but a lot of people auto think 50 shades of Grey. If it happens to come out when you are at a friends/families house, when you bring your partner over to meet them, then maybe explain a little. But otherwise why say anything at all. I know that there are some here that have said that they do things that go with the lifestyle while out, like sit at the feet of the Dom, but that is more or less considered normal, and no one would judge you on that. 

 

It is honestly how do you feel, not everything about you needs to be told to everyone. Honestly, there are only a few people that I am even open to sharing that I am into this lifestyle, and that is only because I know they will not judge me for it at all, and I needed someone to talk to and bounce feelings off of. 

[Guest MissKittyDeNoir]

I'm a little and I'm just learning about this dynamic as well. I agree with MyDaddyMyWorld about the personals. But the way I see it, whether vanilla or not, I feel like if you have a close relationship with someone, introducing them to the dynamic (they have to be open minded too) shouldn't feel too awkward. As for telling close people about your taste, I guess you can call it, I don't think you have to say anything. It is your choice but I've decided not to tell anyone I'm a little because I know their opinions and/or reactions too well. I wish you luck with everything!!

[Guest Ginger-Kit]

My boyfriend and I just sort of fell into a Big brother/Little type relationship naturally. It's just who we are I personally see no need to tell anyone about my relationship outright (I have some friends who share an interest in DD/LG too, so they're aware). My family and other friends just know that I'm very happy with him, and that's all they need to know ^-^

[justcallmeAndy]

thank you all very mutch