Bruises in general ~

[DaddysMonkey]

👏🏻 WAKE UP YOU OLD FARTY STINK BRAINS 

 

This one is a simple question for caregivers , but as usual I don’t care who decides to chime in. 
 

Do you find bruises on littles cute or endearing at all ? If so , why for ? 

* NOT BRUISES YOU GAVE THEM ! 
 

I’m sitting in the bathtub and I look down at my legs , covered in bruises. I am like a bull in a china shop so I’m constantly hitting myself against things which leads to bruises everywhere , but worst of all on my legs and knees. 
 

A lot of Caregivers / Doms seem to like the idea of leaving love marks on their partners , whether they find it sexy or as a sweet remembrance marking - but is it different to see your / a little with bruises from being a clumsy and destructive little booger ? 
 

I’ve always been a rough housing tomboy , and it’s something that Dad and Brother find endearing about me - but I’ve yet to ask them how they feel about me always being covered in bruises (other than their typical worries). 
 

I don’t necessarily like being hurt by surprise (although it can feel quite good sometimes 😇) - I used to get self conscious about all my bruises everywhere…. But I’ve grown to like them. To me - it’s a flag to others in the wild that I’m a kid at heart and don’t mind fumbling around and getting hurt while having fun - or just being a dweeb and getting hurt on accident. I’m not a polished little doll - I’m a ninja turtle toy that’s been thrown in the sandbox a few times 😎

 

[beanbean]

It's interesting question for sure . I like I like it and hate at the same time as I like every part of a little is precious and I would find them cute especially if they didn't hurt .but at the same time I would not want her to get hurt at all

[LittleOceans]

I giggled at this post. I am always running into something or tripping on air. I found a bruise this morning in the yellow stage. I didn't even know I had it, and it's almost healed already 🤭🤣. I'm really clumsy and stumbling everywhere. Thanks for the topic. 

[DaddysMonkey]

Bruisies :3 

[DaddyUmbreon]

Personally, to me, it depends on the nature of the bruises. If it’s not from malicious intents or caused by someone else by malice or evil intent I’m fine.

Bruises are classified in a few different ways, in my opinion. 
•Self-harm
•Negative incidents(fights, attacks, etc)

•Accidental (Clumsy or dumb luck)

•Exploratory(playing/exploring outdoors or some activity from just life)

•Positive Playtime/Punishment(From scenes or punishments like spankings that are not taken too an extreme)

The first 2 I am not a fan of. Those are bruises and instances where I will get worked up about from it being a negative impact. I will be defensive and protective about it. For the 1st, I will try my best to understand and work with it but not something I enjoy seeing. 
 

The third is just life and I giggle at it. However, I will be the first to kiss the Booboo and try to make it feel all better. But life happens. We can all be clumsy ourselves in time. 
 

The 4th I actually smile about. While we love our Littles and don’t want them hurt, I love when they are able to explore and do things and this comes with that territory. I like knowing that they have an individual curiosity and fun air to them. Even Princesses can have adventures. Much like you stated @DaddysMonkey. So I find it adorably endearing and sweet to see that. I think of myself growing up and some of the bruises or scars I have had and have still from exploring the outdoors or climbing a tree to pick oranges or from a feral kitten I tried to save. 

The 5th speaks to me as more of my Dom side. It also depends on the partner and the boundaries and terms you agree upon. Whether it’s from spankings or a degree of rougher playtime or to leaving love marks(hickeys/love bites/etc) these can be very intimate bruises. The meaning lying between the lines you have. Of course, I don’t condone anything seriously damaging and take the utmost care with a partner when I do. 
 

Every person will have their own opinion of these or what limits they have. This is just my opinion. I’m curious to see what others say and think. This is a good topic. Keep it up!
 

[MotoDaddy]

I think the bruising is cute. Only because it's a sign of being clumsy and I can't think of something more adorable than a little bouncing around and into things haha.  It's definitely what you stated, a make that your still a kid at heart