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Hi hi. I'm just really curious,based on experience on , how would a cg/DD/ MD handle different kinds of personalities of a little . I mean not all little are brats or behave, I'm sure there extroverted littles out there, introvert little, shy timid little, crazy over the top little, wanderer always lost little,energetic too much of a little, pet magnet little,always sexual deprived little 😏, cry baby little (sorry🙄), annoying little (sorry again🙄), and more kinds of personalities . How would you guys handle those thrilling personalities ? 

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I think it all comes down to the relationship that the caregiver and the little have together. How one caregiver may handle a certain type of personality may work with one little but not another.

My Daddy has never tried to classify my personality and then treat me a certain way. Instead He takes me for all of the different aspects of who I am together and we just find what works for us.

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I think everyone caregiver should have there own style as should littles and the best way to see if a little is right for you is much communication 

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I can't say for sure, I've only recently been actively communicating in the role of cg. But now I'm talking to the little Who has autism. It's a little difficult for me, but I'm trying. 

Videos about ASD were filled with YouTube recommendations. 

I only understand this topic, but for some reason I really want to care only about him. We're from neighboring towns, it's wonderful. 

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On 12/29/2023 at 10:35 PM, DianeM said:

Hi hi. I'm just really curious,based on experience on , how would a cg/DD/ MD handle different kinds of personalities of a little . I mean not all little are brats or behave, I'm sure there extroverted littles out there, introvert little, shy timid little, crazy over the top little, wanderer always lost little,energetic too much of a little, pet magnet little,always sexual deprived little 😏, cry baby little (sorry🙄), annoying little (sorry again🙄), and more kinds of personalities . How would you guys handle those thrilling personalities ? 

@DianeM Thank you for your interesting question. 
Considering the scenarios you have presented, it's important that both parties communicate as openly and honestly as possible and be willing to resolve the situation and find a common ground to work with. 
Making a relationship to work is a team work; while the CG/Daddy is willing to do their part, the little must also be willing to take directions well to make the relationship to work. If, for some reason, the little is unwilling /unable to directions or do their part, there's nothing a CG/Daddy can do about it. Hope this helps.

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Why thinking in those stereotypes? Sure, classifications help for discussions ABOUT the topic, but they are not helping in deep relationships, like a DD/lg relationship.

I believe handling different littles is just the same as handling any kind of different people. You little may shy, so threat it like a shy person. As a daddy, just like a mentor, you might want to have the shy little opening up. How to do that? Like you would with your best friend, if she/he/them are shy. Wing(wo)man them, help them with their self esteem, etc. And that applies to all "kinds" of littles, which has been posted in the thread.

It's probably the most crucial knowledge about ANY type of relationship: The other part is just a human like you. No need to classify :)

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I think it's a fluid thing.  My ex was little randomly (it was adorable), so I just learned over time she can swing into being any one of the littles you described and would need or want care that caters to her current behavior.  Sometimes, I would just sit back and enjoy her enjoying being little and create the most fun environment I could. Which included a 6ft stuffie I found on sale.

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