Walking and Wondering

[Quirky]

Sometimes I think I should just listen and sometimes I think talking is fun. I...like to relate so anyone in little or middle world struggle with the the back and forths? I think most of us who like littlespace have  little play life/real life feelings. One for me in particular is I can do really good self care but when under um like Daddy care, I get s little lost when I have to go back to self care. Do actually think self care is critical but oh ...the wishes and wiggles makes me feel a little lost sometimes. Anyone have some tips for that tricky step of this lifestyle? Care/self care adjustment tips for better day to days:-) please and thank you!

[blingsing]

Don't stop with the self care, while you have a Daddy. I have my alarms set for taking my meds, I have tasks I need to do that I manage. I do, of course, have things that he looks after but I keep some of my core self care. It's too important to give away. It's like quitting work because you get married and then try to get back into the workforce. You get out of the habit of doing things that are fundamental to being you. Don't stop. Share maybe but keep your own self care.

[Quirky]

16 hours ago, blingsing said:

Don't stop with the self care, while you have a Daddy. I have my alarms set for taking my meds, I have tasks I need to do that I manage. I do, of course, have things that he looks after but I keep some of my core self care. It's too important to give away. It's like quitting work because you get married and then try to get back into the workforce. You get out of the habit of doing things that are fundamental to being you. Don't stop. Share maybe but keep your own self care.

Very good way to think of it, thank you!

[DiscreetNinja]

On 12/30/2023 at 3:17 PM, blingsing said:

Don't stop with the self care, while you have a Daddy. I have my alarms set for taking my meds, I have tasks I need to do that I manage. I do, of course, have things that he looks after but I keep some of my core self care. It's too important to give away. It's like quitting work because you get married and then try to get back into the workforce. You get out of the habit of doing things that are fundamental to being you. Don't stop. Share maybe but keep your own self care.

That is such a smart way to think of it actually