Trouble getting into little space

[hbear]

I know when it comes to little space and getting into it, everyone's different.

 

That being sad, I've had and insanely hard time getting into little space. I don't know why. But even when I'm coloring or doing things that normally would get me into little space.

 

I also normally have someone that will help me feel little if nothing else works, even then lately I haven't been able to.

Its making me sad because I miss that space so much.

 

And when I do start to feel little, someone wants to talk about something "grown up" or something that'll keep me out of little space.

 

Its starting to be more and more frustrating, this has been going on for weeks now.

 

Is there anything that you guys do that is an AUTOMATIC little space activity or something that helps you easily slip into little space?

 

I'm starting to feel less and less like I belong :/

 

END RANT

[cutelilpunkin]

Hi hbear.

I'm sorry to hear that your having trouble getting into little space. Im going to try my best to help you out ( weather you're a boy or a girl, these things can help out all genders)

 

Things that help me get into little space

• Eating cute snacks

Now this sounds weird at first but by cute I mean cute! 

example: Dino shaped chicken nuggets along with your favorite Sippy cup full of your favorite juice. another example would be Cute little goldfish crackers.

The cute snack would be what ever you would like really My favorite is PB&J cut into little shapes

 

• Cute Hair styles

This one is great for when your around people that don't know about your little side. My favorite would be putting my hair half up half down. but in a higher pony tail, you could also add a cute bow or hair clip.

 

• Talking in a little kids voice

This one automatically gets me into little space no matter what. it gets me into the mindset of a child plus its super cute :3

 

• Wearing a Diaper

Now this one is optional (just like the rest of these) Not all little's wear diapers, but some do. some say its comforting to wet themselves and feel the warmth of a wet diaper and that can get them into little space, even if you wear a diaper just to wear one. you DO NOT have to wet your diaper if you get one. It can act as a pull up if you want.

 

• Cute clothes

You can wear cute dresses, or you can wear an adult onesie underneath your clothes if your out and about. or you can wear a onesie around your house while you have your binki in your mouth. There are many options for this one. you can pick cute graphic tees with Disney characters on them or if you're a boy (sorry i didn't get the chance to look at your profile) you could wear things with dinosaurs or robots or superheros on them (there's things like this at Hot-Topic.com ) anyways it doesn't matter what gender you are because you can really wear whatever you want.

 

• Toys and stuffies

​Get you're toys out and play with them! or you can simply cuddle with your stuffies while you watch you're favorite Disney show or movie. I personally LOVE cartoon network.

 

• Be Creative

​Get out your coloring books and you're crayons and color! Another one of my favorites is Finger painting. Use stickers and glitter   for almost everything. You can even put the stickers on your face if you want and walk up to your daddy or mommy like that, I'm sure they would get a laugh out of it.

 

• Cuddles

​This is the last tip im going to give but if you need more you can always send a request and message me.

Just simply cuddle with your daddy or mommy while you watch a movie and suck your thumb, bink, sippy cup or your eating your snack. ask them to stroke your hair while they say things like "good girl" or "good boy" or things like " i love you my little princess" (or prince) etc. 

 

anyways you can even do all of these in one day if you wanted hope I helped

 

<3 -cutelilpunkin- <3  

[Guest Miss Braid]

For me getting into little space is very easy, but staying there isn't usually  

 

I hope that your problem resolves itself soon!

[PyriteHearts]

My problem is that I'm so used to doing little stuff for myself that it's weird to try stuff with my Daddy because it feels like a private thing. I was doing little headspace stuff without realizing it before I even knew that it was a thing, I had a childhood made worse by being overweight with poorly diagnosed and mistreated depression and anxiety made even worse because I was an older sibling with an extroverted bratty sister while I was shy and introverted. I had younger girl cousins who lived close by who were even brattier, I was the eldest and I got saddled with all the responsibility that I couldn't handle. They got the things they wanted because they were loud and persistent all the time, I only got things that I wanted rarely because I reminded my parents or grandparents of how many times they capitulated to my sister and cousins so I got things or money for the things I wanted out of guilt. So in my twenties I indulged in things I couldn't have as a child like bigger stuffies, the kind of clothes I wanted, toys and art supplies (booyah box of 60 Crayola Crayons with built in crayon sharpener!) and food that I used as comfort food. There was a lot of single serving macaroni and cheese in my college dorm. I watched cartoons and anime, got manga for myself, and sometimes just because I was nearby there was a candy shop downtown near where I lived and I could get a half dozen gummies that tasted like Ruby Red squirt for less than a dollar. I don't live there anymore but now I'm so busy I hardly have time to be little but the time I do spend I want to with Daddy. It's not easy sometimes, he's a first time Daddy and sometimes I have to explain things.