Figuring out my little space again

[Lil Baby Stoner]

I realized nothing about my little space was decided by me even the choice of knowing if I was a little or not was made by someone me being a sexual little was decided by someone my little age was decided by someone realized in a community I love most idk who I am without someone deciding everything for me and I wanna figure it out on my own but idk where to start anymore I’m not some dumb 15 years letting people walk all over her would love some advice 

Edited November 24, 2023 by Lil Baby Cow
So many errors lol

[Little_lace_]

No advice just sending good and happy vibes to you! You deserve to find out who you are truly 💕💕

[Curious Leo]

Hmm so in my opinion it’s tough to offer advice since it sounds like someone took advantage of you an I don’t want to get in trouble for saying this incase I’m completely reading your post wrong then I’m sorry but it sounds like your were abused but of course if you feel that you were not and I am misunderstanding like misreading your post then I am sorry for saying that.

 

but umm by some small teensy Weensy itty bitty chance that I maybe read it correctly then I would perhaps suggest art therapy if you like art

or

music therapy if you like music

which could be in addition to just talking about on here, if your already doing then il shut up but if u want me to continue then you can do those therapies through a professional or on your own or even with a close friend/loved one you trust to be vulnerable around.

so if u want to try writting it down in a journal or on here if ur comfortable, or you can try coloring or pairing your feelings to help you get in touch with the inner you an also help you find who you are in your mind space,

you can choose to take what you experienced an work through it to own it an make it your experience not who ever may have chose it for you, think about what you experienced an think about what you might be okay with if it was with the right person someone you feel safe with an also think about what you do not want to experience again so you know where to draw the line so when or if you decide your ready to get into a new relationship you know what your comfortable exploring and what your not and when your ready and if your comfortable you can also share with them what you went through, if you want to share that, or if not then you don’t at all it’s just my thoughts on trying to find yourself through your past an learning to embrace who you are, who you are becoming an who you might be an also what you are looking for, what your not ready for, or what you may need an also what it all means for you in general an of course for when you are in your mind space whether your a pet/little/middle/switch/mommy/daddy/caregiver or all of them or more (incase there is more..I’m also new to this world an also knowing what is the appropriate lingo for this world so I do sincerely apologies if what I wrote isn’t the appropriate response, I honestly do not mean any offense in any way shape or form an I also am not trying to imply or tell anyone what to do) it was just my opinion.

Edited December 15, 2023 by Curious Leo
A lot of grammatical errors & spelling typos an dumb autocorrections that were wrong, oh I also hestitated an thought of erasing everything incase I shouldn’t say anything at all an ugh I’m still on the fence if I should say this or not I misunderstood.

[Quirky]

I...flit ages and yes, like to please so I don't know your full situation and C Leo did a beautiful reply on the heavy stuff. Me? Try age boxes. Put them in your room and see which ones you refill first. My little self did not uh get let out much so every now and then ...I find a box. If you plan to just learn from your behavior vs. thinking you can find your way outside in a bit and when the insides are muggy: out to in works to learn yourself again. Time, space, safe encouragements for yourself. You can do it!