Need help and advice on my daddy asap

[Daddyslittledolly]

Hi I just made my account here but I needed some serious advice on my daddy

 

A little background we have been together for a few months and he said he wanted a clingy needy little well I'm exactly that if he said I'll text you in an hour in worrying the while time he might not text me or call if he even said something like kitty don't do that again i would be upset because I think he is disappointed in me

I try my hardest for my daddy and yes at times I'm a brat but in the last few months I can only think of one time and that was because I had something going on in my life that was very stressful and yes I was put in time out for being a brat but he understood

 

So to my problem... My daddy has been different the past week everything sets him off over tried asking if something is wing like at work or something and he says no just today he got mad because after like 30 min I text him "daddy?" When I haven't heard from him and I was punished.... Like very badly like it's that one punishment that is reserved for when you break a really big rule and has been very mean (I know I shouldn't say that about my daddy but its true) when he punishes me over something small and it's a big punishment I said "yes daddy :(" and he threatened to leave me

 

I feel like I'm walking on egg shells and I don't know what to do I really love my daddy and wasn't too fix whatever the problem is

 

If I for some reason am not on here anymore cuz idk if it will leave me logged in anyway if I can't be reached here my kik is

Daddysdoll17

I really need help with this I don't know what to do daddy's advice and little advice welcome please... I just want to be happy when I talk to my daddy again not worry I'm going to step out of line

[Guest MyDaddyMyWorld]

I could go into all the mights and maybes but it all comes down to this. It looks like it's run its course. You are not compatible. If you are thinking he is mean and angry after only a few months, walk away.

[Daddyslittledolly]

I don't think he is always like this it is like he is stressed but won't talk to me we have all the same interests and stuff I just really don't what to lose another daddy not this one... And I just wasn't too know what can help to fix things that's all..

[HerDarkDaddy]

I agree with MyDaddyMyWorld...

 

The role of a "Daddy" is to love, care for and nurture their littles. If he has been acting "out of sorts" for that long and won't talk to you about it...gets angry over petty stuff...and gives you a severe punishment just for being worried about him...I think you need to get out of there.  Something tells me that things are only going to get worse and I would hate to see you put yourself in the position, just for the sake of having a Daddy.

 

There are others out there.  GOOD ones.  Daddies that really know how to be Daddies.

[Daddyprof]

You could try talking to him, and let him know how you are feeling and how hard this is on you. If he behaves cruelly or insensitively, then perhaps what you have found is not a "Daddy" or even a "dominant", but rather an abusive person. If that is the case, you need to move on for your safety and good health. I know it is hard to think of losing him, but look at how you are feeling - it is fear and pain that you don't deserve.

 

Good luck to you. Things really will get better for you.

[Michael]

He's obviously got something going on that's stressing him out. You should give him some space. Some people just like to keep their issues bottled up inside. Do you usually give him emotional support? I think what's happening here is that he's trying to act tougher than he really is, because he doesn't want to depend on his little for support.

[lilvioletcub]

-grumbles something about if I was like this at 18-

 

Sorry just seeing my own actions in a new light, I fully agree with everyone else on here it just doesn't seem like a good match. I want to point out some things  This will be hard to hear but you don't really love him. Before you or others defend let me explain. You are infatuated, what this means in the chemicals in your brain are making you feel good when you are talking with this man and it's not L O V E why? Because that takes time seven months and then some right now the infatuation is still strong at least for you so seeing him in a diffrent way scares you becuse it's w/o the infatuation  You are just lonely or rather don't want to be lonely. DO NOT settle for someone who will get angry at you for caring or worrying about them! Remeber YOU ARE AN ADULT FIRST you are not a child you are an adult. Take away the "daddy" and "little" title and would you take this kind of treatment in a normal vinnilla relatinship?  Stop with the lables and go Vinalla first. You've only known him for "a few" months this is not the time for DD/lg but rather the time to form a foundation and from what I've read the foundation isn't there, just beacuse you have a lot in common doesn't mean your compadable right off the bat it just means you have some things to break the ice, You need a foundation for the house of your relationship to stand on you need that first. This does not sound like the kind of guy who has time for a meaningful relationship he sounds like he wants a convinence someone to go to when its good for him and other wise treat like trash. Don't stay with a bad person becuse you don't want to be lonely thats not doing yourself a favor in the slightest and hurts you in the long run. Usually in the first few months is when you'll see a guys true colors and not wanting to be lonely is no excuse for being hurt

[ANewDragon]

I honestly have to agree with Lilvioletclub on many aspects of her post.

 

First and foremost is that build a DD/lg relationship should not be the priority, You need to get to know each other and you need to build the foundation of a vanilla relationship first.

 

Secondly, If he is suppose to be your daddy, he would care about your "needs & feelings" and even if he was stressed, he would take into account your feelings and not punish you for being YOU!!

 

Your first post raised some red flags for me. You are both in a relationship, if he is stressed, he should say something and not lash out at you about it. The fact he is lashing out at you, honestly will mean that even if he gets over being stressed this time, next time he is stressed, What will his reaction be?

 

I do not know you and I do not know him, but you must ask yourself if you are willing to take this situation every time he gets stressed, since that has a possibility of happening?

 

It is ok to know if something is wrong with your partner and walk softly because of that for like an evening or maybe a day. However, having the feeling of walking on egg shells in general, is very unhealthy for a relationship, especially if it is more then just walking softly for a day. By what you are saying, it sounds like you have been that way for a few days.

 

I hope that I have provided some assistance

[lilvioletcub]

I honestly have to agree with Lilvioletclub on many aspects of her post.

 

First and foremost is that build a DD/lg relationship should not be the priority, You need to get to know each other and you need to build the foundation of a vanilla relationship first.

 

Secondly, If he is suppose to be your daddy, he would care about your "needs & feelings" and even if he was stressed, he would take into account your feelings and not punish you for being YOU!!

 

Your first post raised some red flags for me. You are both in a relationship, if he is stressed, he should say something and not lash out at you about it. The fact he is lashing out at you, honestly will mean that even if he gets over being stressed this time, next time he is stressed, What will his reaction be?

 

I do not know you and I do not know him, but you must ask yourself if you are willing to take this situation every time he gets stressed, since that has a possibility of happening?

 

It is ok to know if something is wrong with your partner and walk softly because of that for like an evening or maybe a day. However, having the feeling of walking on egg shells in general, is very unhealthy for a relationship, especially if it is more then just walking softly for a day. By what you are saying, it sounds like you have been that way for a few days.

 

I hope that I have provided some assistance

 

As someone who has felt like she has to walk on eggshelles with topics let me tell you

it should never ever be with your partner for more then a moment giving him space when he's angry or upset is one thing being scared that you'll be in trubble if you talk to him is another thats down right abuse of power