Expectation Vs Reality

[MissMeow]

I thought I’d start this topic as I’m sure I’m not the only little with views on this!

 

So! I don’t know about you but I LOVE books Based on the lifestyle📖😍 The only thing is.. do you not thing it gives you unrealistic expectations?? Whether it’s the small, petite, super cute little or the tall, muscly, handsome DD. I’m not saying that people don’t exist that are like certain books protray, but as a 5.8 ft inked curvy little I’ve certainly had some nasty comments saying I’m not “little” enough or “petite” enough and that “little girls shouldn’t have ink on their bodies”. I get it! The misrepresentation goes both ways, but I feel men are a lot more vocal with their disappointment than women😅 or maybe it’s my own crappy experiences idk 🤷🏻‍♀️ Also.. the amount of fake DDs is UNREAL! And same with Littles though I’ve only come across a handful of those! Listen- just cause you like to be called Daddy in the bedroom doesn’t make you a daddy ok?🤦🏻‍♀️😅 

 

does anyone have any experience with this?

[LittleOceans]

I'm still exploring what being little means to me, but I compare what happens in books to the experiences that I've had being on this forum. I guess even to what happens to me in real life. I read lots of books, but I'm shy about my books. I have a tattoo and a life. No matter how I wish that I could jump into a book. Books make everything feel and look so easy when I struggle a lot. They portray an instant connection that I'm too guarded to experience. 

I can understand where you're coming from. 

[Kittyara207]

Fake daddies/littles just looking for attention or to get something from you.  Sometimes it feels like this will do for now.  Like they have nothing better to do so why not have some form of connection and make you feel its real and all or those that promise things but never follow through, or just up and leave without any  explanation at all.  And figure they don't owe you one. 

I believe it takes time to get that connection not just a switch.  At the first few you feel after seeing all the horror stories of failed relationships on here that you lucked out and found the perfect human perhaps just to find you let your guard down too fast.  Or you question if its seems too good and wonder if things are good or if its just your mind playing tricks with you.

I am sure its the same way for CG's sometimes too.  Littles can be deceiving and manipulative as well I have seen them on here.   Just remember it shouldn't happen overnight.  Let it happen forcing it will cause all kinds of discomfort for both sides.

[LittleOceans]

I totally agree with Kitty!

[little locket]

I agree with MissMeow about books giving unrealistic expectations. All i want is some friends to play with and according to books there are littles everywhere and clubs with playrooms where we can explore and express ourselves in ever city and sometimes out in the sticks, all over America. 😔 and for a little living in the rural English countryside where the nearest city is an hour away..... finding play mates is impossible. 

[beanbean]

As in everything a book is never going to be based a hundred percent on you sometimes not even 10 percent. Just got to learn from trial and error sometimes