LilTommy Posted October 12, 2023 Report Posted October 12, 2023 I have counseling comeing up do I mention this life style to her or keep keeping it a secret?? Would love many opinions
LilTommy Posted October 13, 2023 Author Report Posted October 13, 2023 Thank you for your input I really appreciate it and I'll take your advice and reach out before apt and give her a heads up . Littles day was ruined today because I got caught being in my space today for the first time ever and decided to open up and talk to the family member about it and I just feel empty and numb now ! 2
shadowrider Posted October 13, 2023 Report Posted October 13, 2023 I agree with GK. If they are versed and educated in kink then by all means yes. If not I would keep it to myself until you find someone that can be of support. I'm sorry you felt forced into a conversation about your private life. But on the bright side, tomorrow is also littles day. Turns out every day is according to that calendar so you can hopefully have a better one tomorrow. 1 1
LilTommy Posted October 13, 2023 Author Report Posted October 13, 2023 Thank you shadow! Ya I hope it all blows over and we talk or something she's my best friend and it's weird not talkingvslor looking at eachother
beanbean Posted October 13, 2023 Report Posted October 13, 2023 What ever your comfortable with . You can always wait to see how the counseling is helping for a couple sessions that way you can get a best on the counselor and go frin there 1
LilTommy Posted October 13, 2023 Author Report Posted October 13, 2023 Thank you bean I appreciate the feed back
LittleOceans Posted October 13, 2023 Report Posted October 13, 2023 I am also seeking counseling. I have made kink-friendly one of my requirements. I empathize with your recent experience. I can understand keeping your little secret. I've recently stopped hiding and being ashamed of this aspect of myself. However, I do still get embarrassed. I am sorry you are going through this. My mental health can't take it when I feel judged. 1
LilTommy Posted October 13, 2023 Author Report Posted October 13, 2023 I hope you find what you are looking for ! Ocean ,thank you as well mine either I'm right there with you ! 1
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