little wedding

[littlelamb]

Planning a wedding! my Daddy /fiance proposed in late october, now i am in full blown planning mode and i find that now when i need it, here is no ime for me to be little. Im feeling happy o be planning all of this wonderfu stuff, but alone because when i need to destress, i hae no way to do it Daddy works alot and when he gets home he jus wants to relax. hich is ok and totally understandable, but now i feel like i dont have a caregiver. I call him daddy everyday, and drink from a bubba one a week at nigh at dinner, and thats about it. Im no trying to be ungraeful, I just dont know how to deal.

 

[littlelamb]

Thank you so much! sorry about the photo.

[DaddysLolita]

I've found that any type of stress can affect the dynamic. I agree with Rosie that you need to communicate how you are feeling, maybe make some compromises with your Daddy.

 

If you ever want to talk, I'll listen.

 

<3

[DaddyJsPrincess]

so glad to hear I'm not the only one that finds event planning to be super stressful. It can take a LOT of effort to feel secure in your plans. That is big space stuff. You may have to ask your daddy to set aside some time, even if it is just one day a week, for the two of you to live in your dynamic.

 

I know its hard to be patient and understanding, especially if you are working with a deadline, but understand that the wedding will come, and then it will go. The meantime might be really hard. i almost cracked planning a children's halloween party for goodness sake.

 

Have you thought about hiring a planner, or purchasing a wedding package? The venue will sometimes provide tablecloths and centerpieces and even a caterer if you find the right kind of place. It may help take some pressure of your shoulders so you can focus on the future you will be sharing with your future husband instead of worrying about hour d'erves and wine.