My feeling about being a LittleOne /tw:CSA

[LittleMomi]

Hi i'ts Momi!

I'll start by saying that I'm not an expert on DDLG, but I'm new.

I've had fantasies about feeling little for a long time, and only recently have I been learning to accept myself and trying to understand more about this world.

I'm a little afraid of embarking on this path because I went through sexual abuse in the past, since I was eleven years old and I believe that some of my current fantasies are connected to this and I would like to better understand if I should say it, how I should say it to my future daddy. Because it has a huge impact on my current life and how i live my sexual life.

But for my experiences, at the moment only with my ex-boyfriend and online when he left, have made me feel good, able to feel little, able to play with my daddy and feeling calm and relaxed. Being put to bed, having my hair brushed and being able to experience a little more calmly the pleasure of feeling like a little girl with her father, safe and without judment has made me realize i want to continue this.

How did you accept your little side?
How did you meet your daddy and also, you talk about everything to him?

Sorry for the long post and my bad english.
Momi

[Middlespace Brat]

First off, let me say welcome to the community! Everyone is a little for different reasons, and there's no wrong reason to be a little. 

I totally understand having a troubled past. I went through some pretty bad sexual abuse myself. My Daddy says that even if our trauma is connected to our kinks/fantasies, it's better to just ignore that connection and leave it be. I think you should only tell your Daddy about it if you feel really safe and ready to talk about it. He doesn't always have to know. I think you should definitely tell someone, like a therapist though, because having at least one other person know can really help you heal. 

I would suggest making sure you really trust whoever your new Daddy is, because it sounds like you've been hurt before and as littles, especially ones who have been through trauma, it can be hard for us to trust and it means we're extra sensitive. 

It took me a while to accept my little side, but finding others in the community really helped me grow into it. I would suggest making friends here, watching youtubers in the lifestyle, or just reading more about it. There's nothing wrong with being a little, it's a wonderful thing to be!

I met my Daddy in college and we were friends long before we got together. I think that's why our relationship is so strong. There's plenty of great daddies out there, just take your time finding the right one. You'll find him, I promise. Maybe in the meantime, learn about you and your little side! 

All in all, you definitely aren't alone. Focus on loving yourself and healing, and you'll find the Daddy that is right for you. ❤️

[Guest DarkFantasy]

Hey! Welcome here. I am a daddy, not a little, but i wanted to reply.
I think accepting ourselves is the first step in having a happy life, you have needs and desires and trying to fulfil them is only human, a lot of this lifestyle is linked to trauma and childhood and same with kinks, you shouldnt be ashamed about it. Accept that side of yourself instead of worrying that it might be weird.

Your english is good  , it's not my native language either. 

Finding a daddy online shouldn't be too difficult but one that is the right fit for you should be your top priority.

This website has some guides about how to identify red flags if you wish