Dealing with Hate Over Being a Little?

[Middlespace Brat]

Hello!

So I wanted to pop on here and get everyone else's opinions. I am a little who has been in the lifestyle for a while. I'm used to dealing with the looks and comments people have over DDLG/ABDL and it typically doesn't bother me anymore. (I was bullied growing up so I have thick skin lol). 

Except for an incident recently. I won't go into super details, but on one of my social media platforms, I saw a blog talking bad about littles, particularly my favorite youtuber. It wasn't criticizing her for any really "valid" reason, just simply for being a little, liking diapers, using pacifiers, etc. While if these things are said about me, I don't really care. But somehow the meanies struck a nerve and I've been a little sad over it. 

So my question is, what do YOU do when you get/see hate about those of us in the lifestyle? I try to stay positive but this time is really getting under my skin. Advice please? 

[PennyGoodfellow]

Usually this is when I have Daddy "take away" social media from me - it's for my own good to keep away from the nonsense. 

I just don't get the hate. The only thing I'm against is minors being involved. 

[Little kaiya]

I don't let the haters get under my skin or in my head. If I do that then they have some control over my life and I'm not giving that to them. I just ignore them and move on.

[Guest DarkFantasy]

there are haters of everything, you chose what to filter out and don't spend too much time on social media, it won't do any good to you

[beanbean]

1 hour ago, Princette Bambi said:

Hello!

So I wanted to pop on here and get everyone else's opinions. I am a little who has been in the lifestyle for a while. I'm used to dealing with the looks and comments people have over DDLG/ABDL and it typically doesn't bother me anymore. (I was bullied growing up so I have thick skin lol). 

Except for an incident recently. I won't go into super details, but on one of my social media platforms, I saw a blog talking bad about littles, particularly my favorite youtuber. It wasn't criticizing her for any really "valid" reason, just simply for being a little, liking diapers, using pacifiers, etc. While if these things are said about me, I don't really care. But somehow the meanies struck a nerve and I've been a little sad over it. 

So my question is, what do YOU do when you get/see hate about those of us in the lifestyle? I try to stay positive but this time is really getting under my skin. Advice please? 

I know it's always not easy but just try not to pay attention to the noise because that's how trolls live off reactions so if you don't really care and you do you  thru won't be able to touch you just ignore it

[Guest Runa]

I struggle with this from time to time.  I find that the best thing I can do is recognise that someone, somewhere will have an issue not matter what I choose to do in life so why not just stick with what makes me happy?  I know I'm not harming anyone with my lifestyle or dynamic.

Some things people have had an issue with in the past for some perspective here:

• wearing my hair down
• using make up
• sex outside marriage
• enjoying a particular genre of music
• my choice of clothes
• being ill

None of those things are going to harm anyone but I've taken hits for all of them and more.  Someone who wants to find an issue with something can and will.  Like the others have said, ignore it, leave social media/block the person with the issue and move on.  Oh!  And hang out here with other people that are little. 

[MasterPhotog]

@Princette Bambi, please continue living your life just as YOU want and feel proud of it and without worrying about people who don't like it.