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hiiii! so me and my boyfriend have been together for a couple months now. he has always been super open to anything i like. he spoils me and treats me like i deserve the world. i want to try to introduce him to this side of me, in both a sfw and nsfw way but me dropping hints has not been enough, ughhhhh. any suggestions aside from just telling him because that’s boring and i’m a romantic so i want it to seem like it just comes up and is perfect:// haaaallllp

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I would go with the boring way just tell him you would like to try and see what he thinks 

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Thank you for reaching out. Given that your boyfriend is incredibly open to your preferences, spoils you, and treats you as if you deserve the world, and considering that dropping hints hasn't yielded results, you might want to consider taking a romantic walk in your favourite park or along the beach you both love and expressing your thoughts freely. Best of luck.

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Since this is a very niche lifestyle, there is a chance maybe he's never even heard of this or considered it, so that might be why dropping hints isn't working. There might be a romantic way of telling him, like you could plan a day of things to do that would be fun littlespace activities for you. See if he enjoys himself, and then towards the end bring it up to him and explain how the date tied into it and ask if he'd be open to exploring more with you. I'd also be prepared with resources for him so that he can learn and look into it more on his own.

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Others have offered good advice, so I will only add one thing. There are a lot of misconceptions out there. Even if it’s something he may enjoy, he might be apprehensive to bring it up. Your best bet, as others have said, is be open with him and have a discussion. 
 

He sounds like he treats you very well so I hope it works out for you!

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