I Need Help

[xxMinixx]

I'm a little. And I need a daddy but the daddy I have now is just not mature enough. I am truly stuck in this relationship. I feel like I need guidance from an experienced caregiver so I can understand fully what I'm wanting from him. Because as a little I find myself getting frustrated and stressed out from his behavior and what he's not giving. He wants to be a daddy so bad but he doesn't understand what that means and I can not help him. Any advice on where I should find a caregiver and where he should go to learn?

[Tasherz]

Hey Mini! 

I'm Tashers, I know how frustrating that can be! There are some experienced daddys or caregivers that are very willing to give advise to both you and your daddy who are learning. If you want a less hands on approach, my daddy and I go through the forum together, for example, I mentioned I wanted more structure, rules and such... we went through the post about rules to see what will work for us and what won't. Hope this helps some!!! Good luck! 

 

 

[MasterPhotog]

Hey Mini, 
As Tashers said, you may want an experienced and patient CG to help you and possibly your current Daddy interact better. Feel free to let me know if I can be of any help. 

[beanbean]

First thing you do need is talk to your daddy let him know what you need and ask him if he is willing  to seek and take advice as some are not willing and go frim there

[Cebakes]

There is some very good advice already provided and I would recommend following what has been suggested.  The maturity thing can be an issue and hard to change.  

Have  you written down your needs and desires on paper and then discussed them with your partner?   Has he shown an interest in learning what a daddy or caregiver provides or what you seek?  Has he taken the initiative and time to research the forums and sites on DDLG?  

We all have to start somewhere and gain experience as a caregiver or daddy.  The information and ability to learn and grow is out there if someone has the interest and passion.  

I assume he is young, but do you see caregiver traits in him?  Does he have natural protective, provider, caring,, nurturing, dominant traits that will grow as he matures?  Has he shown an interest in helping you grow?  If you are down, sad, or dealing with something, is he there to support you?   Unfortunately, there are things that you can learn, but with some traits, you either have them or you don’t. 

There is a large amount of information on the Internet about caregiver or daddy dom traits.  If he truly wants to learn and grow, the information is out there. 

 

[Guest DarkFantasy]

Hello. I've been on the side of the relationship before. I once was not mature enough and I didn't realize it until later. If he truly lacks maturity then it's something that he will need to learn in due time but I doubt that with your efforts he will change truly. Good intentions aren't the same as actual progress. What helped me was simply being told and having to learn it on my own. Make sure to communicate it as you don't want to be stuck there!