How long is too long?

[Chocodoll]

When you're talking to someone that you've met whether it be just for friendship or for eventually trying to establish a dom/ little relationship. How long do you think is appropriate before you start to give information about myself? I typically wait for about a week and if I'm comfortable I'll share closer details about myself as I see fit. I'm starting to wonder if this is too soon? Because sometime it feels like I'll be waiting for months before I even get crumbs from the other person. I mean obvi you're not gonna share your card info and address but like... a name or pictures?

[PennyGoodfellow]

For me, it depends on how the conversations are going. If it's nonstop daily for weeks it might be sooner. If it's only a few messages a week then obviously it's longer. 

I think I'd be personally comfy with waiting a couple of weeks, but if you're being safe about what you're sharing then it's totally up to you! 

[GrampyP]

If you aren't sure, don't share. Important details, pet names and honorifics should all be earned.

Edited September 6, 2023 by GrampyP
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[AspiringDaddy]

10 hours ago, Chocodoll said:

When you're talking to someone that you've met whether it be just for friendship or for eventually trying to establish a dom/ little relationship. How long do you think is appropriate before you start to give information about myself? I typically wait for about a week and if I'm comfortable I'll share closer details about myself as I see fit. I'm starting to wonder if this is too soon? Because sometime it feels like I'll be waiting for months before I even get crumbs from the other person. I mean obvi you're not gonna share your card info and address but like... a name or pictures?

First name and pictures after a reasonable while sounds reasonable. How long? You'll have to trust your gut (and the other person) about this. It should definitely be mutual.

As always, be safe and prudent.

[Cebakes]

On 9/5/2023 at 5:24 PM, Chocodoll said:

When you're talking to someone that you've met whether it be just for friendship or for eventually trying to establish a dom/ little relationship. How long do you think is appropriate before you start to give information about myself? I typically wait for about a week and if I'm comfortable I'll share closer details about myself as I see fit. I'm starting to wonder if this is too soon? Because sometime it feels like I'll be waiting for months before I even get crumbs from the other person. I mean obvi you're not gonna share your card info and address but like... a name or pictures?

Waiting months to get “crumbs” is a huge red flag. Something is off.  If someone doesn’t start opening up and give you bits and pieces of info after a week or two, they probably are not a match for you. 

Edited September 8, 2023 by Cebakes