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Guest Fae ME
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Book Name: BDSM: 101 Your Complete Beginners’ Guide to the Other Side of Pleasure. ( Bondage, SM, Submissive, Master, Training, Obedience, Pain, Pleasure )

Author: Rebecca Chestain

Book Genre: BDSM/DDLG/Non-Fiction 

Short Summary: This book is excellent for both Dominant and submissive or Littles who are about to begin their journey. As a Little, I have many questions that can overwhelm my Daddy, but I want to give him comfort. So one can start from the scratch and get a little introduction of this life from this book. However, those who are experienced, they may not like the book because this book is very much basic, save and except they are open minded and enjoy everything and anything. 

Favorite Quote: People who are brave enough to take the role of the Dominant are usually more attuned at satisfying their couple than anything else. They are more sensitive to their partner's needs, and have higher capacity to read the signs that their significant other are sending to them.

Edited by Fae Engla
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Guest Feadog80s
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There's a thought, I like the idea of being a daddy but quite frankly I'm terrible at reading people. Not that I'm selfish it's just not something I am any good at.

I wonder how many other unexpected challenges may lie there

  • 5 months later...
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While reading people is something you can have from birth, it is also something you can train, Feadog80s. In my childhood I have been diagnosed with Asperger and I am still struggling with seeing peoples faces (sounds weird, but most faces are just blurry for me), but nowadays I am at least quite good in guessing what people might think and feel like. Even though I'm trying and learning my whole life, it is still very hard, but doable to read people, if you don't have a natural talent for it. 

As for the of Fae ME, I need to disagree at one point: This book SHOULD be read by experienced BDSM people too. Probably especially by those, because it has a pretty clear language when it comes to very importnatn things like consent, misbehavior or power abuse. Rebecca Chestain - actually not her real name - does a great job in pointing to the basics. On the other hand this book is not for people, who need to be convinced to try out BDSM and it's fascettes. So a good present for kinky people, but not a good gift for people, who are unsure yet. 

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