Age gap between Daddy and lg

[Mark555]

Hi.

what is the acceptable age gap as per your understanding between partners. 
I am 41 and im attracted to younger women who look petite.

 

[Kali]

Depends really. Maturity level has a lot to do with it. I find that my energy level matches more with younger men and right about 34-36 is where I start seeing the right combination of both. So for me, up to a 10-12 year gap would be comy. 😊

[Mark555]

1 hour ago, Kali said:

Depends really. Maturity level has a lot to do with it. I find that my energy level matches more with younger men and right about 34-36 is where I start seeing the right combination of both. So for me, up to a 10-12 year gap would be comy. 😊

A very smart point of view. Thnx 😊

[Cebakes]

I think the age gap and things working all depends on the two individuals involved. Maturity is very important as well as having similar interests, goals,  and desires.  My last middle was 21 when we met.  

[Little kaiya]

My Daddy turns 24 soon and I turned 45 this year. It seems like a big difference and there are certainly moments where some of our interests don't align but they are by far more the exception. My Daddy is a very kind, loving and mature man and although neither of us sought out an age gap relationship it works for us.

My Wife on there other hand is a couple of years older than I am.

[LittleBunnyCici]

This is going to be one of those conversations that is open-ended to the point of uselessness.

On a practical level, once everyone is of legal age and capable of consent then there isn't materially too much anyone can do about it, ja? That said, there are serious elements that go into whether or not an age gap in a relationship is ethical, and they mostly revolve around power imbalances and, more critically, how you handle those power imbalances. The problem is that you can't just stop the conversation at "power imbalance," and walk away thinking you made a good argument. Virtually every relationship on this planet has some measure of power imbalance in it. One partner has a better paying, more established career. Gender politics and systemic misogyny. System racism when you're talking about interracial relationships. The list goes on. How someone and their partner choose to approach those imbalances says a lot more to me about their relationship, and about the partner who stands on top of those imbalances, than that they simply exist. Do you approach your partners with respect and dignity, valuing their emotional and physical well-being and working together as a unit, or do you use your influence over your partner (whether that influence is financial, social, or whatever else) to get what you want at the expense of your partner's needs and wants?

That all said, I won't lie - there's also a big difference between "this person I randomly met and fell in love with happens to be younger than me" and "I actively and consistently pursue people who are younger than me," and while I may not necessarily say anything when I encounter the latter I am definitely side-eyeing them.