princesskennie Posted December 1, 2015 Report Posted December 1, 2015 So there's been many occasions where my daddy says things to me like "you can't be little right now" or "we'll try watching this movie again when you're not in little space". I know he's not trying to be mean, or at least I don't think so, but it really hurts my feelings. Then he gets grumpy when I'm sad about it. Am I overreacting? Does this happen to anyone else?
Princess-P Posted December 1, 2015 Report Posted December 1, 2015 Being little is who you are. He should never get grumpy at you for being little. Yes there are of course times when going into little space isn't appropriate, like at work or like a meeting at the bank or something lol. Serious situations, watching a movie isn't one of them. Is it possible he's not really a Daddy and just goes along with it to please you? Maybe he's just trying to be a supportive boyfriend but the lifestyle is not always appealing to him? Just a thought. I honestly can't imagine any caregiver being grumpy with their little for being who they are... 3
lilvioletcub Posted December 1, 2015 Report Posted December 1, 2015 Being little is who you are. He should never get grumpy at you for being little. Yes there are of course times when going into little space isn't appropriate, like at work or like a meeting at the bank or something lol. Serious situations, watching a movie isn't one of them. Is it possible he's not really a Daddy and just goes along with it to please you? Maybe he's just trying to be a supportive boyfriend but the lifestyle is not always appealing to him? Just a thought. I honestly can't imagine any caregiver being grumpy with their little for being who they are... I agree with this. A good example is I just found my little side prior to this I had a middle side (12-14) but now I have an Actual little side and it worried me how this might confuse him or mess up the dynamic already in place. Instead not only did he accept this new found side he made up a full on back story to go along with our already founded dynamic. He didn't get upset or angry he accepted this and here we are, being a little is who you are and if he gets grumpy becuse your sad about it put it in terms he'll understand
baby_ace Posted December 2, 2015 Report Posted December 2, 2015 The only time I'm not allowed to watch a movie in little space is when its a scary/horror film just because it will give me nightmares or if I'm driving or at work. Any other time as long as I'm not causing problems it isn't an issue. Are there reasons why he doesn't want you to be little at those times?
princesskennie Posted December 2, 2015 Author Report Posted December 2, 2015 The only time I'm not allowed to watch a movie in little space is when its a scary/horror film just because it will give me nightmares or if I'm driving or at work. Any other time as long as I'm not causing problems it isn't an issue. Are there reasons why he doesn't want you to be little at those times? 1
princesskennie Posted December 2, 2015 Author Report Posted December 2, 2015 I'm not even quite sure why he doesn't want me to be little in those times in particular. He always tells me how much he loves my little side and loves being my daddy but then he says things like "you can't be little right now" and it makes me feel like he hates that I'm a little.
Guest Jennyanydots Posted December 2, 2015 Report Posted December 2, 2015 Nu-uh...my opinion is Daddy doesn't get to decide when you're little unless he knows it's going to be dangerous for you in some way (including physically, emotionally, mentally, or damaging to your reputation etc). BUT it's your relationship and you need to be able to talk openly with your Daddy so the two of you can work out what is best for the two of you. If you can't speak openly, you have bigger problems. Talk to him and tell him how you feel. Make sure he knows it's an important conversation and make sure you both know where each others' boundaries are. Daddy shouldnt cross his boundaries either, even if he's in charge. 2
Guest MyDaddyMyWorld Posted December 2, 2015 Report Posted December 2, 2015 Have you actually tried asking him? Might be a good place to start. You are still an adult, so talk to him like an adult in a relationship ought to. 1
lilvioletcub Posted December 2, 2015 Report Posted December 2, 2015 Daddy and I talked things out! Thank you guys for being so helpful xoxo And what was the out come ? I wanna know XD
princesskennie Posted December 3, 2015 Author Report Posted December 3, 2015 And what was the out come ? I wanna know XD Well Daddy apologized and told me that he knows that he was wrong for trying to control me. He told me that he loves his little girl and he's super sorry for making me sad 1
Princess-P Posted December 3, 2015 Report Posted December 3, 2015 Its so great you were able to talk to him. Communication is sooooo important. Your both doing it right. Glad your happy again 1
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