What do you want/like your Daddy to do for you?

[Winnie89]

New to Little life, well New to all of this. So far the only things I know of Daddy/Little relationships are what I've read in my books or on here. If this isn't too personal, what are some things that you crave for your Daddy to do? Things that you love that he does for you? It can be anything from rewards to punishment, kisses or cuddles, cooking, playing, etc. I don't have the experience that some if not most of you all have. I'm a curious Little.

I guess I'm trying to live vicariously through you 😅

If this isn't appropriate, let me know.

[MiddleBoyBlue]

I'm relatively new to things too, and for what it's worth I'm in a DDlb dynamic with my husband.

I love praise, I love forehead kisses, Daddy's pet names for me make me melt (good boy, sport, champ, prince, buddy, etc.), he's got the best cuddles. I love getting rewards for good behavior (still acquainting myself with forum rules; these rewards are often sexual, but not always) and I love a good firm punishment-- usually a spanking-- when my behavior is not-so-good. I love it when he spoils me in any way, which he does often. I love the way he encourages me if I'm flagging, especially during a workout or other physical activity, and in a similar vein I love the way he supports me when I'm pushing at my physical or emotional limits in order to accomplish something I really want.

And then there's a whole bunch of more straightforward activities or little things I love to do with Daddy like movie nights, roughhousing/wrestling, being tickled, baking or cooking, getting sips of his beer, puzzles, bath time, going to the amusement park, doing yoga or other workouts together, having my hair washed or brushed, back rubs (which I also do for Daddy), story time either before bed or just for a break, falling asleep on Daddy's chest. There's a lot to love.

Edited July 8, 2023 by LiddleBoyBlue
words are hard

[Winnie89]

Ohhhh that sounds amazing and soo sweet!!!! 😍😍😍 thank you for your reply!!!

[MiddleBoyBlue]

My pleasure! I could talk about my Daddy forever 🤭🥰

I did forget one other thing I especially love, which is when he uses particular emojis or strings of emojis that are specific to different contexts. Like sometimes he'll send me the 👑 if he calls me prince, or the 💪 if he's congratulating me for working out (or ordering encouraging me to get off my ass and do so). Of course we live together but still text plenty with different schedules and being out and whatnot.

But I just get a boatload of ❤️s, too. He's so sweet.

ETA: I edited my previous comment, too, but my partner and I typically refer to each other as "husband", which is by name and not by law. I just wanted to change it for consistency/to avoid confusion across posts, and because I have actual OCD and it was driving me bonkers.

Edited July 8, 2023 by LiddleBoyBlue
made a whoops

[Winnie89]

Hes sounds awesome. I'm happy for you!!!

[Guest anxiouskitten]

I'm very new as well, but some things my Daddy does that I absolutely love are; forehead kisses, holding my hand (especially to cross the street or a parking lot), praise! Any kind of praise, when he pulls me close while cuddling, hugs, does puzzles or plays with legos with me, pets my head, tells me I'm too little to do something (like reach a high shelf), oh and especially when he calls me by any pet name. I could go on for ever haha but those are a few things that I really love that he does. 

[Winnie89]

AnxiousKitten, forehead kisses are too cute. My 8yr old son picked that up somewhere and likes to give me forehead kisses. Hubs doesn't do it so I have no idea how he picked that up but I don't hate it cuz he's too sweet and the gesture is such a loving and caring one.

The idea of someone (partner/daddy) playing with me is a big one for me. I'd love that.

Your Daddy sounds very sweet and good for you. Thank you for sharing, i love hearing about these rare daddies!!!🤗🤗🤗