break-ups

[petalpup]

i think me and my daddy broke up

and i don't know what to do

and i don't know how to feel

and i don't know who to talk to

and i can't stop crying because i miss him

 

please help

please just tell me what to do because i can't breathe 

[ElMapache]

Not a little but I saw this on the sidebar and it spoke to me.

I can't tell you to just feel better because it's not that easy, and when you give your heart to someone, you don't even want to feel better when it's broken.

The only thing I can say is contact him and tell him exactly how you feel, every detail.  You owe it to him and yourself.

[STLMike]

Sorry to hear. Break ups are very hard but like the person above me said. Maybe reaching out and explaining things will be best cause then you get what you need to get off your chest and maybe he can explain his side. Being unsure as you said you think you broke up will mess with your head and no one needs that. So IMO reaching out and seeing is the best course of action, but as always just be careful.

Keep your chin up.

[Guest Runa]

I'm really sorry you're going through this, petalpup.  Breakups can be so difficult!  It sounds like you're not really sure if things are over, sounds like you need to have a conversation outside of littlespace so you can be clear how things are.  I have no doubt you'll find lots of people here you can talk to about things and help you through this.

[Vampiress]

I'm so sorry, I wish I could offer you a hug. Please get some rest, take a bath or shower, eat some food, and hydrate. You need to take care of your physical needs. Right now this will take moment to moment to get through, but it will get easier over time. I promise. 

[beanbean]

I am sorry I hope you can talk and at least get clarification on you situation as does not seem like your sure if you broke up 

[petalpup]

@ElMapache @Runa @Vampiress @beanbean 

thank you for all of your advice and care 🤍 i did give it my best shot reaching out to him

i was ghosted pretty horribly and suddenly, that's why i wasn't sure if he broke up with me

i didn't even know what was happening 

i was trying so hard to make him happy, and then i was just alone

 

he was my first daddy so this is all

it's just um

overwhelming 

and hurts

 

all the courage i've been building up over the past few years to sign up here just got stomped on

but you've all been so kind

so thank you 🤍  so much

you have no idea how much it meant to me to have wonderful people acknowledge my existence and try to help

[Guest Runa]

Just to ghost you is pretty cold.  You deserve a reason and please know that he's in the wrong.  It takes so much trust to get into a relationship with someone in this dynamic and being little the emotions feel so much bigger.  You deserve so much better!  I hope this doesn't put you off from being little and seeking out someone who treats you right.  

[Vampiress]

On 5/21/2023 at 10:35 PM, petalpup said:

@ElMapache @Runa @Vampiress @beanbean 

thank you for all of your advice and care 🤍 i did give it my best shot reaching out to him

i was ghosted pretty horribly and suddenly, that's why i wasn't sure if he broke up with me

i didn't even know what was happening 

i was trying so hard to make him happy, and then i was just alone

 

he was my first daddy so this is all

it's just um

overwhelming 

and hurts

 

all the courage i've been building up over the past few years to sign up here just got stomped on

but you've all been so kind

so thank you 🤍  so much

you have no idea how much it meant to me to have wonderful people acknowledge my existence and try to help

I'm so sorry, I can't even imagine the hurt you're going through right now. Be kind to yourself, and just know it isn't your fault.

[BabyBrattyKittyKatty]

Ghosting in a relationship is straight up just unacceptable.

 

I recently got ghosted by a very good friend and even that sucks, I can't imagine how much hurt you've overcome. So very proud of you!! You deserve better 🍭🍬😊

[lilpincess]

I’m so very sorry! Hugs to you