How To Slip Into Littlespace Around A New Person

[smoochkook]

Hi everyone! I'm currently feeling my way around a new relationship with a prospective Daddy, and I wanted to ask all the littles here: is it hard for you to be little in front of someone new? if it is, how do you let yourself fully slip into that headspace? Do you have any tips? I really like this guy and I think i'll be comfortable with him, but it's just been years since I've been little by myself and I've NEVER been fully little around anyone else, so I'm not sure how this will go

 

[Little kaiya]

I've always built the relationship first then littlespace came naturally when the time was right for both of us. I never tried to slip into littlespace with a partner because if I had to try it told me I wasn't ready yet.

[AussieMelbourneDaddy]

Little space shouldn’t be something you have to push yourself into. In any new relationship the base fundamentals should be built first… trust, comfort, safety, communication… any extra dynamics will come organically.

As above (as Little Kaiya said) if you have to force little space are you really comfortable in your relationship? Forcing something to happen just breeds lies and deceit that can eat away at a new relationship and destroy something that could be super special.

I hope this helps.