Submissive/little looking for daddy dominant

[Brattyprincess1]

I’m 19 I’ve been reading books abt ddlg n bdsm n Ik it’s something I am interested in I just don’t know how to get into my little space I think I’m scared to because what if ppl judge me or what if my mom doesn’t love me no more what will I do and I really really want a daddy 

[Erasmeus71]

Out of curiosity do you still have stuff animals in your bedroom? Have pink clothing still in your wardrobe. Do you tend to draw in coloring books. Now that your mother may not catch you with. Painting either. What about your type of books your reading? Do you love being in nature. What is the big deal about taking a nature hike. A lot of adults do it and it has nothing to do with being a little. Some do but lots just enjoy nature. We still have adults playing video games. I think it is the type of games however. I am on the computer playing a game. Now some of being a little is how you act and talking if you don't do those last two around your mother she most likely won't notice. The pastel clothing for some reason is frowned on after age 12. Not sure why. They are worn is other countries. It is just USA.

Edited April 23, 2023 by Erasmeus71

[shadowrider]

I agree with Eras, there are plenty of ways to explore your little space without being out in the open. 

 I also don't think you should do it in front of family and friends unless they are part of the lifestyle. No one needs to know what you do or are into as an adult unless you share that with them. Yes we want to share our lives with those we hold dear but at the same time this is different than most life events. Its not like saying "Hey mom I bought a new car, wanna go for a ride?".  We're talking about something that the majority of the planet misunderstands and judges. So keep it to yourself and enjoy it. You'll find friends you can share with, probably find a couple here on the forum.

 I also think you should learn who you are as a little and what you like, dislike, need, and want before ever thinking about a partner. But that goes for anyone getting into any type of relationship. You have to be happy with yourself and know what you want and need or you are going to run right smack dab into a heartbreak.  Take time to learn about yourself and what you need and also what you can offer the right partner. Then go out and find it. Just my 2 cents.

[Will]

Yes there’s no need for others to know, some people have teddies n dolls just as a hobby / a home furnishing. Only a handful of people in the real world know I enjoy DDLG.

Your great journey awaits.

[Andriel_Isilien]

In our club Knowledge is Power, I wrote up some threads/discussions about how to incorporate Cg/l into your daily life. In there I have been collecting tips and ideas particularly about How to Be SECRETLY Little. How to incorporate CG/L into your daily life! - DDlg Forum & Community

[Brattyprincess1]

On 4/22/2023 at 10:52 PM, Erasmeus71 said:

Out of curiosity do you still have stuff animals in your bedroom? Have pink clothing still in your wardrobe. Do you tend to draw in coloring books. Now that your mother may not catch you with. Painting either. What about your type of books your reading? Do you love being in nature. What is the big deal about taking a nature hike. A lot of adults do it and it has nothing to do with being a little. Some do but lots just enjoy nature. We still have adults playing video games. I think it is the type of games however. I am on the computer playing a game. Now some of being a little is how you act and talking if you don't do those last two around your mother she most likely won't notice. The pastel clothing for some reason is frowned on after age 12. Not sure why. They are worn is other countries. It is just USA.

Yes I still have all my stuffies mg mom threw a lot of them away though😭😭😭

I have a lot of pink in my wardrobe 

my fav color is pink

i love color,painting, I read books abt ddlg n bdsm on Wattpad