Found a nice application form for Daddies!...

[Guest Fae ME]

Hello Littles and Daddies/Mommies,

I have found a nice application form for Daddies. Those who want to be Mommies, please replace the word "Daddy" with "Mommy". Here it is:

Here is the link of its authority: https://www.facebook.com/109749814081682/posts/give-ur-dada-this-form-to-fill-to-be-sure-he-really-loves-ya-and-this-daddy-rule/118291159894214/

[txflatlander2021]

That's actually kind of cute and has some good questions in it.

[Accountable Daddy]

A couple of these I'm concerned about (like asking if willing to spoil raises some serious questions. Probably not meant to, but it instantly makes me think about it being a prostitution thing because of the term "spoil" being part of that sort of thing). Vague questions like what your role is as a Daddy and what rules to follow is hard too. Cute idea, but definitely needs refined.

[Little kaiya]

I get the concept but to me the concept of one party applying and the other party holding the decision power feels uncomfortable. To me DDlg is a relationship between two or more parties not a supplicant/decision maker relationship or a formulaic job interview. I dunno, it feels very transactional versus organic relationship building. Just my perspective though.

Edited April 17, 2023 by Little kaiya

[txflatlander2021]

5 minutes ago, Little kaiya said:

I get the concept but to me the concept of one party applying and the other party holding the decision power feels uncomfortable. To me DDlg is a relationship between two or more parties not a supplicant/decision maker relationship or a formulaic job interview. I dunno, it feels very transactional versus organic relationship building. Just my perspective though.

Good points. To me it seemed like a cute little coupon book idea for something that was already established.

[MissNMTX]

There are some good...if very basic questions here. Good, be good if someone was very very new, or very shy. I'm sure it's meant to be a cutesy thing and not anything serious or actually relational. Could be a good intro to a conversation.

[Guest Fae ME]

On 4/17/2023 at 4:16 PM, Accountable Daddy said:

A couple of these I'm concerned about (like asking if willing to spoil raises some serious questions. Probably not meant to, but it instantly makes me think about it being a prostitution thing because of the term "spoil" being part of that sort of thing). Vague questions like what your role is as a Daddy and what rules to follow is hard too. Cute idea, but definitely needs refined.

I highly disagree with you. Spoil has no connection with prostitution. 

Spoil means allowing to break rules sometimes. 

[Guest Fae ME]

On 4/17/2023 at 4:49 PM, Little kaiya said:

I get the concept but to me the concept of one party applying and the other party holding the decision power feels uncomfortable. To me DDlg is a relationship between two or more parties not a supplicant/decision maker relationship or a formulaic job interview. I dunno, it feels very transactional versus organic relationship building. Just my perspective though.

I understand your point. Daddies ask several questions to Littles. So I don't think Littles need any application. 

Edited April 22, 2023 by Faerie Tikli

[beanbean]

3 hours ago, Faerie Tikli said:

I highly disagree with you. Spoil has no connection with prostitution. 

Spoil means allowing to break rules sometimes. 

Yeah I don't think spoil in it's use here has anything too do with prostitution 

[Accountable Daddy]

On 4/22/2023 at 6:55 AM, Faerie Tikli said:

I highly disagree with you. Spoil has no connection with prostitution. 

Spoil means allowing to break rules sometimes. 

I would suggest using a different term, because it's commonly used to reference purchasing items and giving money.

[Erasmeus71]

Well one can answer back with a list of Daddy rules asking will you follow them or not? I already have a bunch listed in rough draft. From this site and other sites. Not that all would be used. I know if a little is knocking themselves down that would be a rule I would put in right off the bat. I keep talking to someone. They keep calling themself stupid. Yet I have not done anything to make them feel that way.

[Kittyara207]

Spoiling to me is just another way of saying spending time with, hugs and cuddles giving in and letting one stay up a bit.  Have more cartoon time, being sure to keep favorite snacks around.  Surprises not always items.  Like setting up a bath the way that's perfect then throwing their towel in a dryer while they are in a bath so it's nice an warm.  Spoiling.

[Guest Fae ME]

9 hours ago, Accountable Daddy said:

I would suggest using a different term, because it's commonly used to reference purchasing items and giving money.

Thanks, but I did not make this. I just share it here and I provided the link from where I get it. 

So, feel free to contact the main author through the link because I am don't know the person. 

Personally I like the form so shared. By making changes I don't want to violate others copyright. 

[Guest Fae ME]

12 hours ago, Kittyara207 said:

Spoiling to me is just another way of saying spending time with, hugs and cuddles giving in and letting one stay up a bit.  Have more cartoon time, being sure to keep favorite snacks around.  Surprises not always items.  Like setting up a bath the way that's perfect then throwing their towel in a dryer while they are in a bath so it's nice an warm.  Spoiling.

I highly appreciate your answer. 

Spoiling for me means allowing to break rules some times or rewarding me with books.

When I break rules, with or without intention, then my spiritual master give me tight hugs through which I can feel his warm blessings under his wings and arms. He try to understand the cause why I break the specially when I did it intentionally. 

I read in several books that punishment must give pain to create a fear in the mind of sub or little to refrain her from making the fault again, but my spiritual master never punished me. 

My parents, teachers punished me and rebel against them, but my spiritual master never punished me, even if I hurt him.

Everyone said that he is spoiling me, but in the end of the day, I surrendered myself, apologise to him because he love me.

Hurting my spiritual master cause more pain to my emotional, physical and mental health.

Even after getting suggestion from @beanbean I contacted him to talk and he said that he is not only childhood friend, but also he taught me spirituality. It was not my fault I misunderstood him or someone came between us and became successful to use me against my work. I never put him down and it was not my fault, it was his issue. 

Moreover he recognised that I joined this forum because he wanted me to join as I need some friends and nothing more than friendship to fight out my fears, even then when our friendship was weak for that third party. 

This is spoiling for me. Spoiling means earning that much loyalty and respect that eyes goes automatically with respect for the Dom or Daddy. Spoiling can be highly constructive if one can be creative. 

We should find out the positive meaning of these questions as @Kittyara207 you did. I thank you for this.

Edited April 24, 2023 by Faerie Tikli

[Guest Fae ME]

17 hours ago, Erasmeus71 said:

Well one can answer back with a list of Daddy rules asking will you follow them or not? I already have a bunch listed in rough draft. From this site and other sites. Not that all would be used. I know if a little is knocking themselves down that would be a rule I would put in right off the bat. I keep talking to someone. They keep calling themself stupid. Yet I have not done anything to make them feel that way.

I am little, and without your permission, I want to share my experience to clarify your questions that are going inside your mind. 

1) Rules must be best for your little and you. Websites, books can give you bunch of rules, but all of those might not be relavant. So Daddy need to form those rules that solve daily issues for both Daddy and little. 

2) If you focus on your life and desire along with the desire of your little and combining those two in one form you can see both yours whole goals for life as long as you two want to continue together. Then you can identify all most all daily tasks, routines, rituals. Then make your rules with the help of website and books which Daddy can change from time to time according to needs. This will not knock the little down.

3) If you keep talking to someone ignoring little, then your intention must be measured. If your intention is not to harm your little, then you must explain this to little.

4) If a little is calling herself little, then responsible Daddies interrogate them to look behind walls inside their mind and try to wash out with medication of love & care their harms for which they are calling themselves as stupid. 

Thanks for sharing your thoughts.