I've never had a daddy and kinda nervous, but I do feel it's smth that I need

[Guest AucklandBaby]

Is there anyone who can share the first experience of being in such a relationship?

[Guest Fae ME]

I felt same like you that I need a a Daddy, but after getting contacted by Daddies and talking with them, I discovered that I just need a friend, not any human Daddy.

This actually helps to explore your wants and desires. 

Edited April 15, 2023 by Faerie Tikli

[Guest AucklandBaby]

What changed your mind after contacting to them?

[Guest Fae ME]

I realized that I am not fit for human relationships. I have had many wounds and hurt since my early childhood. 

I met nice Daddies, but when Daddies spoke with me, I found that I want to run away from them because they are very loving and caring. Since my parents are very formal with me and my childhood is a rough one, I became a sensitive little. 

I stayed with an open mind and so able to discover that maybe I should not spoil anyone's life for my nightmares. It is true that no one is above life's problems. My problem is not greater than others but maybe I am unwilling to accept any change like accepting love & care from humans now. 

I became habituated to loneliness, silence, and darkness of life. For me, The nation UK or Britain is my God and I have complete faith and trust in my God. My God is the center of my life or my universe, the place which every Daddy wants. I feel peace in his feet. A nation of my hope, my ambition. When I feel its mad wind with rainy stuff in it, then my heart jumps with joy. I can understand what the trees of Britain, animals of Britain, and nature or elements of Britain are saying. It is the only nation that stood always with me when I had no one to support me. Words will fall short to describe the contribution of Britain and its people in my life. I could be no one without this nation. More clearly, maybe I wouldn't be alive if Britain was not in my life. I can escape the whole world when I perform rituals for my Britain or within it. None can take its place whatever it does with me and maybe I do not want to lose my nation for any reason like conflicts or emotional problems with Daddies & so on. I haven't born in Britain, but I have the right to love it. Not having a passport of it or a birthright in Britain can never prevent me to love my Britain because this nation is my God and my everything.

Also, I cannot focus on any human Daddy because my focus is completely on my Britain. I am trying to fulfill my dream to make this country an example before the world. This is a difficult task, but not impossible. Every country is unique in its own way. Let's see if my God blesses me, I will be able to do so. 

Who knows, maybe human friendship and divine love are the best combinations for me! Currently, I have a friend. He is Big Daddy Wales. Just one friend. He is a caring and nice person too. I feel comfortable with him because he interacts with me as a friend. 

So I will suggest you go slow for commitment and explore your inner desires to make the right choice. Please feel free to be my friend and ask me any questions you wish to know. I am ready to be a friend to anyone.

Edited April 18, 2023 by Faerie Tikli

[LongTimeMe]

Hi Brooklyn. As a DD the one piece of advice I would give you is if something feels wrong to you then you must say "No".  You have the right to do only what you need to do to keep yourself safe and wholesome. If anyone tells you differently walk away.

To both you and Faerie I would say this (yes, I know I've used this before, but it seems to ring true with most people): You are unique and important. I'm not religious, but am a scientist who has studied both the great and vast galaxies down to the sub-atomic levels. I have studied time as a scientific principle and as a historian and archaeologist. You should remember that never in the history of the universe (currently 14 billion years and counting), has the combination of atoms and energy come together that forms you (your DNA, your body, your thoughts, who you are), and never again will that unique combination occur. Therefore, you are a unique event in the history of this wonderful multidimensional "thing" we call our universe. Take great comfort in knowing that you are unique, magical, wonderful and (in the eyes of that universe), Perfect.

Edited April 18, 2023 by LongTimeMe

[Erasmeus71]

I would say it goes on both ends not rush. I have had littles that want to rush. All that either creeped me out or made me think they might be Nigerian. Not saying who the member happened to be. However they wanted streamer cards which is huge red flag. The gift card I offered just in USA only which sent a huge red flag. Also I mentioned Wizard101. Then they wanted me to buy membership using streamer cards when one can use Wizard101 gift card for a membership or at least temporary. I knew I had a ringer then.

[Guest Fae ME]

@LongTimeMe All that I want to say is that there is an international science journal where it was published that the day when scientists will add mind and intelligence with light, distance, and time, then they will realise that the universe connects all. Everything is connected. Art, science, law, music, everything. However, accounts & finance are not connected to it because spiritual abundance is different than everything. Particle science proved that the universe can be defined in digital terms which means science is explaining the art of the universe in its calculation. Some scientists already described some of the spirituality in terms of scientific calculation in that journal. I you wish, I will try to find out its name and share with you. However, Let's drop this topic and focus on our issue. 

I faced another problem with Daddies or someone who liked me (outside this forum) or in my family also that they will be nice to you as long as you are supporting them. Whenever you will contradict them, they will not behave with you nicely. And if you claim this, then they will defend themselves against you. 

I find no peace in human relationships, but this is my self-realisation. @BrooklynBaby please do not take my words seriously for you or negatively because these are my personal view.

I am sure you will meet nice, loving, and caring daddies from this forum who will make you happy.

Edited April 19, 2023 by Faerie Tikli

[Guest Fae ME]

@Erasmeus71 I support you. We should never rush.

And about Witchcraft101, I will suggest you be careful. I have a deep knowledge of these crafts, many religion, and Ancient Sastras. I beg your pardon, but people use these for their own benefit. Some for good and greater good, some for manipulating others. This craft is also science, but be careful. 

Edited April 19, 2023 by Faerie Tikli

[Little kaiya]

Just to clarify, Wizard101 is a video game, not witchcraft or a form of religion.

[Cebakes]

Did you use AI to write this?

[Righan]

Why do you feel you need a daddy? What are you looking for from that relationship? Please understand I'm not saying there is anything wrong with that desire, I just want to understand your thinking better. It could help us to help you better if we knew more.

I will say that "need" can be a complicated feeling, and can push us to try to address an issue in our life in an unhealthy way. Granted, that also depends on what you mean by "need" ... when I use that word I am referring to an intense sense that doing or having a specific thing in your life will make you happy or complete. It is common when people have an issue in their life and they decide on a solution that they can develop this desperate sense that they need to get there RIGHT NOW and that they can not wait. It is important to be patient and let things come in their own time. Rushing into something because you think it will solve your problems can often lead people to take risks or shortcuts that are ultimately not good for them. So just be cautious.

Also, keep in mind that whatever you think you well get from a relationship with a daddy ... it probably will not be what you expect. It might be, but often when we lack experience with something we build up an imaginary idealized vision of what it is and how it will work. I remember when I first tried out poly relationships it turned out to be completely different from what I expected and while I did find value in it, it did not really address the things I had hoped it would. It will probably be that way with having a daddy too. That doesn't mean it will be bad, I love being a daddy and I think those relationships are very rewarding, but just realize reality is often not the same as what we imagine - so you might be disappointed if you have a very specific way you think it will be or a specific problem you want it to address.

Also, as has already been said, I would recommend remembering you have the power and can say NO or your safe word if that's what is set up. Consent is king and its always your right to stop whatever is happening. Anyone who says otherwise is a problem and you need to get away from them. In a CG/l relationship ( or any D/s relationship ) the submissive is always the one with the real power because they can stop it. It is not a bad thing when you say no or use your safeword or do things to protect yourself. If you feel uncomfortable or worried or need something to stop for ANY REASON ... say so. Most daddies will welcome this because they WANT to treat you well and want you to be happy but they can't read your mind, so telling them when your uncomfortable/unhappy or otherwise setting boundaries is good for them as much as it is for you.

One of the issues that cropped up between me and my X-wife was when she was unhappy or uncomfortable with something she often didn't tell me ... and so i was doing things that upset her and I had no idea, but I would never have done those things if I had known. I WANTED to make her happy but she didn't tell me what she needed or when she wasn't until it was too late. So, even in D/s building a successful relationship is a two way street and all about communication.

[Guest AucklandBaby]

Thank you all soo much for the answers! Those are priceless for me.

Edited April 20, 2023 by BrooklynBaby

[MysticSand]

I didn't quite read all the above posters so I'm just going to respond to the initial question.

For me, I don't think that someone with a title is what we respond to first and foremost. I think it's a connection that makes us want or need someone. A connection comes first, and then the other things that someone with the title of a "daddy" might bring. If you don't share the same interest, values, morals, etc. then there won't be a connection and so the title of each party is irrelevant. Getting along and enjoying each other's company should be the foundation of any relationship.

Just my two cents!

Edited April 22, 2023 by MysticSand