Submissive CGs

[Floatyduck14]

I have been curious about this for a while, do submissive CGs exist? And if so where are they? 

It's really difficult for me to find a place for myself in this community. I feel like I'm too assertive and domininat to only be a sub, but I also feel like I lack a lot of organization and discipline to be a Dom. I'm just weirdly in the middle?

I've met one person who was a submissive CG and it seemed like a perfect fit for where I stand on the spectrum of ddlg. 

 

Am I the only little who feels like they'd benefit from a submissive CG just as much as a domininant CG?

[beanbean]

I mean I am sure there out there I know some dominant littles .as long as you know what you want don't let tittles stop you from looking for it after all it's just a title and you know you better then anyone 

[GrampyP]

I consider myself a submissive cg. I tend to let others lead if they want to but if they don't want to or don't know how I can lead. But I'm always protective and nurturing.

[Floatyduck14]

Really?! That's very exciting to hear. I never meet any and if I do the disappear

[Erasmeus71]

Well this is a interesting question. As I don't want the girl to be hurt I suppose you could consider me to be one also. Borderline I guess as I know I dated someone that behaved just like a little. That was my deceased fiancé. However since she was 100 percent Introvert and I was not. I feel more comfortable in social settings it showed. I took over. She pushed me to be dominant despite me trying to stay equal. If I was to date someone and they were to tell me something however I may not want to be pushed around.

[MysticSand]

Yes? I guess I'm not too sure what a "dom" or "submissive" entails when it comes to the CG role. I would say for me personally, I'm not assertive as I know I cannot force someone to do anything end of the day so I see my role more as someone who guides but doesn't push or force.

[Taggy]

On 3/23/2023 at 3:03 PM, Floatyduck14 said:

I have been curious about this for a while, do submissive CGs exist? And if so where are they? 

It's really difficult for me to find a place for myself in this community. I feel like I'm too assertive and domininat to only be a sub, but I also feel like I lack a lot of organization and discipline to be a Dom. I'm just weirdly in the middle?

I've met one person who was a submissive CG and it seemed like a perfect fit for where I stand on the spectrum of ddlg. 

 

Am I the only little who feels like they'd benefit from a submissive CG just as much as a domininant CG?

Olaaaa! I'm a submissive caregiver I do think we are a rare breed. In the Dutch bdsm scene I haven't met one so far. So from time to time it is difficult to find the dynamic as I don't really have a role model or something.
I'm a sub caregiver for a little/ middle princess who does al kind of dominant/ sadistic things to me from a little or middle age. Meanwhile I make sure she drinks enough, make her food, help her with household chores when I'm with her etc. Basically I'm her butler.
For me I'm more submissive than dominant. I did topped people in the past, but I like being a sub better. So the combination of caring for someone while also being a sub to her works really good.