Secret little space

[Cass1995]

Even though I'm new to being a little I feel like I have to hide it from my family because one time my mom seen one of my pacifiers and she gave me the judgemental look. When I say mom I'm talking about the woman who gave birth to me. If I want a toys or stuffies I would have to order something that has a dule use. What should I do?

[MentorDaddy]

"This little girl inside me, is retreating to her favourite place... And it's not easy for me. It's like give away a secret." -- Kate Bush, Under the Ivy

Your question made me think of this Kate Bush song about a grownup woman, retreating to a secret place where she can be herself.

Just to give you another perspective: you're doing nothing wrong to human kind when you own a paci as an adult. I guess you're a decent person. You're not driving drunk, you don't harm other people. I guess there's every reason to be proud of you, with or without a paci.

And yes, some situations might feel a bit embarrassing, but that's not the end of the world. It's also a chance to connect on a deeper level.

For people who are curious about the Kate Bush song: Under the ivy (YouTube)

Edited March 21, 2023 by LovingDaddySadistic

[Sir GUS-gus]

This is a difficult question.

In the past i had to hide my little stuff to from my family. And little by little it got more and more until up to a point where i said okay that's enough until i get my own place lol.

I had to be creative. I locked my little stuff in some bags and put them in my closet. Then i put the key where i know just i can find it. Or i keep the key close to me. I even know how to break the locks if i ever loose the keys lol

Also everyone's situation is different. I know my family wont accept my little side.

[Kittyara207]

My spouse doesn't understand and will never but I've come to terms with that.  I have a few friends online that are awesome and supportive it's good enough for now.

[Little kaiya]

Being little is something I share with my Wife and Boyfriend/Daddy. Do my family know, yes. Do they see or participate, absolutely not. I honestly couldn't imagine having to hide part of who I am.

[PocketDove]

Only my Daddy and a couple friends know about my ageplay.

I'm careful about who I trust with that part of my identity. Not everyone understands what it means for us to be little and not everyone deserves to know about this special part of us. Some people want something to shame, even if it's none of their business.

[babysusie]

hi so i’m pretty new to this too. the only person who knows about me being a little is my boyfriend/cg. i don’t feel the need to tell anyone else because it’s very personal to me and i’d feel judged as well. i’m pretty comfortable having stuffies on my bed just because it’s pretty normal in my family but i do hide my bottle/sippy cups. if you don’t feel comfortable sharing that part of you, dont. you shouldn’t feel obligated to share things about your personal life.