Being DDlg in public

[Guest DaddysLolita]

Awhile back I saw this article on a blog about DD/lg date ideas! 

 

https://www.domsub.life/ddlg/top-26-little-date-ideas/

 

It got me thinking about the public part of DD/lg and how everyone has different thoughts about it. So I'm interested in the thoughts of everyone here.

 

In your current relationship or if you're currently looking for a DD or little, your ideal relationship, how do you feel about publicly displaying it? Are you open to activities that bring out the "little" in your little? 

 

I'm all for little dates! Public ways that my Daddy and I can share in the dynamic, some of the ways I'd like to do this are listed below...Please feel free to add your own!! (Sorry about the length!!) The best thing about these "Dates" is that they're very normal things to do that definitely (at least for me) have the ability to bring out the Daddy and little and provide lots of fun.

 

Little Date ideas:

 

Zoos, Aquariums, Beaches, Movies, Malls, Flying kites, Hiking, Mini golf, Arcades, Sledding, Build A Bear, Ice cream, Frozen yogurt, Fairs, Carnivals, Petting zoos, Visiting parks, Stargazing, Visiting COSI (An interactive museum here), Having picnics, Painting classes, Ceramic classes, Laser tag, Camp fires, Boating, Walks along the river front, Scavenger and treasure hunts, Visiting candy shops, Picking fresh fruit, Going to farmer's markets, Live theater, Sunsets, Corn mazes, Hayrides, Haunted houses, Playing in leaves, Pumpkin patches, Road trips, Outdoor movies, Sidewalk chalk, Blowing bubbles, Visiting the planetarium, Going to breakfast, Watching fireworks. 

 

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[ANewDragon]

While I am still new here. I know that anything to brings joy to my little, will bring joy to me. So for me, Going out on a date that the little part will enjoy, I definitely would be open and very willing to do. I would definitely like to find a little, that will bring her little side out in public, even if it is just seeing the joy in her eyes while we are doing these things.  

 

Sorry, I do not currently have a little so I do not have any more Ideas to add, but I do agree with most of your Date Ideas.

[Guest DaddysLolita]

That's alright!

 

It's nice to see there is another that would be comfortable in public, a lot of other blogs and discussions I've seen this same question on have a lot of people that aren't.

 

I was a little apprehensive with the subject at first...the first outing I guess that Daddy and I went on was actually stuffie shopping! We were in the store and looking at them I got super excited...."Daddy" just slipped right out of my mouth, I hadn't even realized that I had said it.

 

That's something I might have to be more careful about.... >_<

 

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[Guest Miss Braid]

I might be open to being little in person if I were in a place where I would reasonable expect to not meet people I interact with on a regular basis.

I would be perfectly fine if a little I had was open to being little in public, I wouldn't mind being "outed" as a Mommy/Daddy in pubic

[Guest DaddysLolita]

I might be open to being little in person if I were in a place where I would reasonable expect to not meet people I interact with on a regular basis.

 

I wonder if this is why my Daddy was okay with the slip... we weren't in an area that we'd see these people ever again. 

 

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[LolitasDaddy]

I've always wanted you to be yourself. I don't recall ever setting limits for public. Being somewhere I don't know people has a layer of comfort, but you can be as little as you want when we are going to the same old grocery store. I care about us, and your happiness, not what a bunch of strangers might think.

[Guest DaddysLolita]

I've always wanted you to be yourself. I don't recall ever setting limits for public. Being somewhere I don't know people has a layer of comfort, but you can be as little as you want when we are going to the same old grocery store. I care about us, and your happiness, not what a bunch of strangers might think.

 

I know.

[HerDarkDaddy]

I encourage Princess K to be little whenever she wants to be. I know that being little is something that lets her relax and feel "right". I am comfortable with her being little public...but, she is not yet.

[ANewDragon]

I have to agree with LolitasDaddy on this one. It is about being who you are, and what makes you happy. For me, I would not care if the people I interact with even on a daily basis knew that I was a daddy. In fact I am pretty sure I would be proud of it. 

[Guest DaddysLolita]

I'm glad to see a comfort level amongst you all

 

What kinds of things would you enjoy doing with your littles?

 

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[LolitasDaddy]

Sand castles, flying kites, paddle boats, fireworks, making a snowman, costume shopping, xxxxxx on ice, hmmmmmmm. I'm sure there's many more.

[Guest DaddysLolita]

I haven't made a sand castle or a snowman in a long time! That sounds like fun...and I've never been to anything on ice. On the list they go!

 

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[ANewDragon]

For me, I guess I would be up for doing pretty much anything that makes my little happy. If that is building sand castles, Snowman, Stuffies, Sledding, Using Chalk on the sidewalk. Ice Skating.

 

I guess for me, since I am a kid at heart and I know I will love to see my little happy, I really dont care what people think of me, as long as the little is happy

[HoneybeePrincess]

Maybe it's my age, maybe it's just my "take me or leave me" personality, I'm with ANewDragon on the public opinion. I mean you don't have to lay yourself bare to the world and be explicit about it intentionally, but don't be afraid to show whatever it is you feel. I think most people just think I'm eccentric. 

 

Let me put it this way, in a room of 200 plus upper management, executives and the CEO and president of a very large company, during a lull where you could hear a pin drop in a general session Q&A, my witch of a middle side just opened her big mouth and in the most confident, space cadet Michelle mimic I could produce out popped the phrase..."Well, there was this one time at band camp...." Dead silence for two seconds then the whole room exploded in laughter... except the CEO, my regional director and the lone British man in the room who were all staring around the room like a bomb exploded. I was beat red. 

 

The corporate director of HR pulled me aside and high fived me after but for ten minutes the CEO glared at me like I was satan as he tried to pull the room back to order. This is the mischief I try to reign in but dang sometimes that little vixen slips free and all I can do is advise those around me to do is duck and take cover. 

 

The more comfortable you are in your uniqueness the less others will think it's crazy. More than likely they will join in. 

[Guest Pouty Kitten]

Whenever I'm out with my Daddy, I'm usually always in my little space. I haven't really gotten any weird looks from people whenever I do call him Daddy, but that may be because I don't really notice if they do or not. 

 

As for dates, you pretty much named all of the things that we do for our date nights. I especially like going to the park, having a picnic and watching the sunset while Daddy pushes me on the swings I also like going on tea dates with Daddy and swimming!!

[Guest Sweetlittle25]

I think being out as a little in public is good as long as you feel good about it. If people are going to judge you then they will find something to judge you about regardless of what you're saying or doing. I don't have a daddy but if he's comfortable with me calling him that in public then I wouldn't mind doing so.

[Daddy4Princess]

I'm all for my little being little in public if she so chooses. Her embracing her little side would make me happier then her stifling it just because we're in public.

 

One of the more innocent "fantasies" I have is my little frantically tugging on my arm and saying "Oooh Daddy lookit that!" in regards to something she likes.

[Guest DaddysLolita]

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One of the more innocent "fantasies" I have is my little frantically tugging on my arm and saying "Oooh Daddy lookit that!" in regards to something she likes.

 

I like that, very cute.

 

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[Guest buddhagirl]

Daddy and I are always just ourselves, as much as possible, everywhere we go. But I do love when we're traveling and I can call out "Daddy" to him across a store, museum, park, etc., and it's okay because we don't live there. 

[The Perennial Princess]

I never even think about being DDLG in public, really. When I'm in public, I focus solely on my papa and he focuses solely on me so there's really no point where I evaluate if I'm behaving like a baby. When I'm with my papa, he's my sole concern and the opinions of other people has always mattered very little to me. I always call him papa, and he calls me baby regardless of where we are. I'm not afraid to start giggling and making baby noises over the goats, or a pair of shoes, or a sundae. I just don't notice anyone else. He's the only thing I ever see. 

 

We don't plan little dates specifically but we tend to plan activities that arouse both of our interests. One day we may go to a movie, the next to a crayola factory, and then to the mall. Papa definitely tries to always spoil me and make me happy though I want to ensure that he is having fun too.  I always plan our outings with both of us in mind. It helps that what makes me happy makes papa happy and vice versa. 

[piinkblondie]

I never really thought about being in public with a daddy or a mommy ( I don't have one now lol) but I think I would just act like my regular little self (: but I don't think I would scream out "daddy look at this!!!" Lol because I'm a private person in general but I don't think people can tell any difference. Except when I buy baby food they are proberely thinking I have a baby but no its for me hehe

[plumplilprincess]

Usually when I'm in public, I engulf myself as much into our interaction as I can, so not to have my anxiety bother me too much, so I'm usually myself, except maybe a lot quieter. But I don't think I could call my Big "Daddy in public." I'd feel like I was being judged for it. Even though most people think we're siblings anyways.

[DaddysLolita]

Calling him Daddy in the store just kind of happened. It slipped out before I thought about it and honestly I'd probably be fine doing it again. I didn't know how he'd react to it, so that made me nervous but if he's fine with it I am.

 

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[DaddysNena]

I call my husband Daddy sometimes in public. He pushes me to let my little out. And while my big side is very confident and outgoing. My little side is EXTREMELY shy!! I hint at daddy when I feel little but I easily slip in and out. It's just something he knows how to handle. And although I know he'd love it for me to let my little roam free... I can't seem to let go!